There’s so much pain in this question – “Are you okay?”
That one moment when somebody asks you this question and you realize that someone just noticed what you have been hiding for long. This suddenly changes your face because at that moment someone just tore your mask apart and saw you raw and for that moment your fake-smiling-face couldn’t deceive that someone. And just for a moment you realize that you were never okay and you are never gonna be okay anymore. But still you say “No I’m Fine” and then you say to yourself…..
Be strong, Don’t break down. You know, the circumstances are weird, But its okay! you’ll face them. Whatever happen good or bad, Don’t lose hope and Keep your head up, Have faith in yourself, never break down, Because life goes on!
And suddenly you feel Better 🙂
You know, we all are same. Sometimes all we need to do is to make a fool of ourselves and be happy. Yes! life is strange and sometimes you have to put a fake smile on your face & hope, one day it will be real again and believe me IT WILL BE 🙂 Life may be full of ups and down, but if you give it a little time you’ll put yourself where you need to be. Just don’t give up, and don’t ever change for anybody. Always be yourself, Express yourself & Have faith in yourself. Don’t lose hope you never know what is coming your way 🙂 Be positive and choose to see & think about the positive things in your life & trust me, all will be better! 🙂
Are you able to be an engaging, creative, dynamic woman with OR without a man??? Or do you sometimes fall into the trap of being the clingy, fearful girlfriend who can hardly function without him…??? Don’t worry! lots of us have done it….nobody is BORN understanding this dynamic. If you’re anything like me, you might just have to screw it up pretty good before you figure it out. And happily for all of us, becoming an awesome, in-demand girlfriend is a skillset you can learn, remaining faithful should not be an option but a priority. Live simply, love generously, speak truthfully, when you talk say what you mean and mean what you say. Do your best and leave everything else to the powers above you. 🙂 When you stop expecting people and situation to be perfect, you can start to appreciate them for what and who they are. Give your best in your relationship and then let it be. If it’s meant to be, it will be. Don’t hold yourself down with things you cannot control. If you feel like your relationship is sinking, think about what the cause is as it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down and always surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you. 🙂
Always try to figure out who is worth your attention and who is just taking advantage of you. Finally, remember that the first to apologize is the bravest, the first to forgive is the strongest and the first to move forward is the happiest. 🙂 For those who lack trust in their relationship or who have broken relationship, just know that because someone has been in your life for many years, doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be a point at which you finally decide to let go. You have to understand that people come and people go. That is life! So stop holding on to those who have let go of you long ago to avoid had I know after wasting your years. Sometimes the changes we don’t want in life are the changes we need to grow and growth and changes may be painful but nothing in life is as painful as staying stuck where you don’t belong. Finally, accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what could be and never let your fear decide your future. Just keep calm and be positive, good things will surely happen in your life. 🙂 🙂 And remember, If you ever need anyone to talk to about literally anything, I AM always here to listen no matter what okay! 🙂
“In Life or Nature, things are broken with a purpose- clouds break to pour rains, rivers break to water fields, fields break to yield crops, seeds break to yield plants…So if ever you feel broken, understand that you must be part of a Better and more Beautiful purpose !!!” 🙂
When a GIRL is quiet millions of things are running in her mind. When a GIRL is not arguing she is thinking deeply. When a GIRL looks at you with eyes full of questions she is wondering how long you will be around. When a GIRL answers ‘I am fine’ after a few seconds she is not at all fine. When a GIRL stares at you she is wondering why you are lying. When a GIRL lays on your chest she is wishing for you to be hers forever. When a GIRL wants to see you everyday she wants to be pampered. When a GIRL says ‘I love you’ she means it. When a GIRL says ‘I miss you’ so no one in this world can miss you more than that! 🙂
Okay finally I’m done with this book, WORLD’s BEST BOYFRIEND written by DURJOY DATTA. So I pre-ordered it on Amazon.in and guess what? Am so lucky, I got his signed copy. 🙂 I was so happy when I received it. This was my first read of Durjoy Datta and I must say I’m so impress by his work and I’m sure I’ll continue to read his other books. The very one thing I loved about this book is its cute title 😉 it is really so cute, isn’t it???? 🙂 Well, Durjoy is a wonderful writer. World’s Best Boyfriend is his 11th book and yes I liked it. And by the way, thanks to Amazon.in I’m damnnnn happy about the signed copy I’ve received, so THANK YOU DURJOY & AMAZON! ❤
Durjoy Datta’s new book tells us a story about a girl Aranya who has a disease named vitiligo since birth because of which her parents always hated her and never a moment came in life when they treated her nicely. Her brother was always considered more superior to her even when she was very studious and always scored in top ranks. She meets a boy named Dhruv who is disturbed because his parents have separated as his mother leaves home with his school principal. This leads Dhruv to be very rough and unemotional all his life. Somehow, both Aranya and Dhruv falls in love in school. After getting caught, they are separated and they only meet after couple of years to hate each other as much as possible. They try almost everything to ruin each other’s peace but is the hatred only thing that they share between each other? Hatred for someone comes only when you consider them someone important in your mind. That’s the plot on which World’s Best Boyfriend is based upon. I’m not going to tell you the whole story, all I wanna say is go read it, it’s a nice one.
First of all Thank You Durjoy for shading some light over VITILIGO. It’s still a stigma in the society. Well done!!!! 🙂 Now coming to the main storyline, The story is simple enough but it’s quite good. I liked it and I really mean it. It will make you laugh, cry and angry. There were so many twist and turns in the book. The book clearly shows the mental trauma the kid goes through when his/her parents decide to split up and leaving behind so many unanswered questions. It also shows that whatever god has made you black or white or thin or fat or with any disability/disease, you should never take yourself for granted, you should love yourself & be proud about it. 🙂 And there is a very good message in the book for parents and teachers that no matter what if your child is physically not fit or have some disease parents/teachers/society should never treat them like burden, they should love and support them. The disabled people don’t need our sympathy, they just need our love, so just love them. 🙂 Anyways, I liked the character of Dhruv Roy. According to me, he is not WORLD’S BEST BOYFRIEND but yes he is a quite nice and cute boyfriend whom every girl wants. 🙂 But I really loved Sanchit’s character the most! He was just amazing and soooooo funny, my god! 😛 😛 He is the most interesting, entertaining and alive character in this book. Really, he was damn funny and he was the only love cupid between Dhruv and Aranya.
I didn’t like Raghuvir’s character and I felt sad for the professors 😛 but really Raghuvir was a boring part of the book. I hated his Casanova image. By the way, I loved these names “Dhruv and Aranya” 🙂 nice choice Durjoy 😉 The best thing in this book that I loved is Dhruv and Sanchit’s friendship. Lol, they were amazing. They reminds you of your friendship with your best friends, at so many places, there was a stupid smile on my face while reading how they were conversing with each other. 🙂 It was really a fun read. This book has everything from emotions, drama, action, love, hate, romance, sadness, anger, and revenge in 288 pages. I’ve enjoyed reading every scene durjoy has created in the book. In the later portion, what I liked the most was the interaction between Dhruv and his father. It was quite meaningful and beautiful. So, It is a nice book with a cute love story. No matter how many love stories you might have read, this one is surely different. Not only love, you also realize what true friendship is! 🙂
Some interesting quotes:
“Love is a conscious decision to be destroyed.”
“Hate is a four letter word and so is love. And, sometimes people can’t tell the difference”
“That’s the cliche about love. You don’t choose it. It chooses you.”
“Easy love is no love. Love’s not love unless you’re laid waste by it, unless you’re destroyed by it, ripped apart and scarred for life by it.”
All in all it is a nice love story, a good book and I would recommend all of you to read at least once & explore the pure love by our cute dimple boy Durjoy 😉 the book is already in BESTSELLER list and Durjoy surely deserves it. 🙂 This is really a good book with so many good messages. A truly beautiful love story, Durjoy knows well how to connect with his readers. Well, In this book, there’s one more good message that I would love to share “you cannot hate a person once you loved so rather than taking revenge or hurting the ones who hurted you try to forgive them, that will make you a real human.” 🙂 So, do read this book guys, at least once…its full of humour, drama, emotions, sadness and lots of love & friendship. JUST GO FOR IT!!!!! 🙂
आज मैं पहली बार कुछ हिंदी में लिखने जा रही हूँ. मैं माफ़ी चाहती हूँ, जिन्हें हिंदी नहीं आती उनसे (Those who can’t read or understand Hindi, I apologize to them) I AM SORRY पर मुझे इसे हिंदी में ही लिखना था आज. जो मैं आज लिख रही हूँ ये मैंने कहीं पढ़ा था और ये मेरे दिल को बहुत छु गया, क्यूंकि इसका हर शब्द मुझे सही लगा. हम अक्सर हमारी माँ को कभी ये नहीं कह पाते के हम उनसे कितना प्यार करते हैं, पर दिल से हम जानते है कि उनकी जगह या उनके द्वारा बनायीं गयी किसी भी चीज़ कि जगह हमारी ज़िंदगी में हमारे दिल में कभी भी कोई नहीं ले सकता. है. हम सब जानते है, पर कभी अपनी माँ से कुछ कह नहीं पाते, ये नहीं कह पाते के माँ आप सबसे अच्छी है, आपके हाथ का खाना, आपके हाथों से बनी हर एक चीज़ बेमिसाल है, आप इस दुनिया में सबसे अच्छी है और मैं आपके बिना कुछ भी नहीं, I LOVE YOU MAA ❤ …कुछ ही दिनों में MOTHER’S DAY आ रहा है,शायद कल ही है 🙂 पर मुझे लगता है सिर्फ एक ही दिन क्यों? क्या हम हर दिन अपनी माँ कि इज़्ज़त और उन्हें प्यार करते हुए नहीं बिता सकते? उनके लिए कुछ ख़ास करते हुए नहीं बिता सकते? बस अपने हर दिन में से सिर्फ एक पल अपनी माँ को प्यार से गले लगाइये, उनके लिए हर दिन ख़ास बन जायेगा और हम सबको MOTHER’S DAY का इंतज़ार नहीं करना पड़ेगा. 😉 🙂 चलिए, अब मैं आप सब को वो छोटी सी कहानी दिखती हूँ जो मेरे दिल को बहुत छु गयी, हो सकता है आप सबने ये कहानी कहीं पढ़ी हो पहले, पर मुझे ये बहुत अच्छी लगी इसलिए मैं इसे अपने blog पे share कर रही हूँ . मुझे उम्मीद है आप सबको भी अच्छी लगेगी. 🙂
” बचपन में माँ के हाथ के बने बहुत कपड़े पहने हैं। तरह-तरह की फ्रिल वाली फ़्रोक, डिजाईन डालकर बनाये गए प्यारे-प्यारे सइ स्कर्ट-टॉप। उनकी बनाई एक फ़्रोक की जेकेट तो अभी तक रखी है, मेरा वश चलता तो वो फ़्रोक भी कभी न फेंकने देती, लेकिन कपड़े की उम्र मेरी उम्र के साथ बढ़ नहीं पाई और मुझे उन कपड़ों को पीछे छोड़कर बड़ा होना पड़ा। उनके हाथ के बने कुछ स्वेटर तो आज भी पहन लेती हूँ, बाहें थोड़ी छोटी हो गई हैं लेकिन किसे फ़र्क पड़ता है बाहों से, जब स्वेटर माँ के हाथ का बना हो तो। बचपन में जब माँ कपड़े बनाती थी तो मेरी पहली शर्त होती थी कि जो फ़्रोक मैं पहनूँगी बिलकुल वैसी ही फ़्रोक मेरी गुड़िया के लिए भी बनानी पड़ेगी और मेरी ख्वाहिश पूरी ख़ुशी से माँ पूरी भी करती थीं। मेरी गुडिया मोहल्ले की सबसे अमीर गुड़िया मानी जाती थी क्योंकि उसके पास लहंगे से लेकर फ़्रोक तक, टॉप स्कर्ट से लेकर साड़ी तक ढेरों कपड़े होते थे, जिन्हें माँ ने हमें सिलाई मशीन के बगल में बैठा कर ही सिया होता था, हाथ से चलानी वाली उस मशीन का हत्था हम ही तो घुमाते थे। बचपन में मैं माँ से कहती थी कि जब मेरी शादी होगी तब मेरा लहंगा भी आप ही सीना तो माँ हँसती, कहतीं तेरा लहंगा तो तेरा दूल्हा लाएगा और मैं रो देती कि मैं किसी और का दिया लहंगा नहीं पहनूँगी । पर अब वो लम्हे सिर्फ मीठी यादें हैं… 🙂
हम शायद अपने कल को वो मीठी यादें न दे पाएँ… क्यूंकि अब लड़कियों का सिलाई मशीन चलाना, सीखना पुराना हो चुका है. अब माएँ बच्चों के साथ बैठकर कपड़े नहीं सीतीं बल्कि टच स्क्रीन (touch screen) पर ढेरों वेबसाइट (websites) खोलकर कपड़े चुनती हैं, अब बार्बी डॉल (barbie doll) का ज़माना है, फैशन या तरक्की के नाम पे हम कहीं न कहीं अपनी ज़िंदगी कि छोटी छोटी खुशियों को भूल गए हैं. अब न माओं के पास उतना टाइम है न बच्चियों के पास, हमने तरक्की जो कर ली है… लेकिन कोई भी तरक्की माँ के हाथ के बने कपड़ों का सुख नहीं दे सकती। माँ कि वो पुरानी यादों कि जगह नहीं ले सकती. वक़्त बदल गया है, पर माँ या माँ से जुड़ा कोई भी रिश्ता कभी नहीं बदल सकता. 🙂 “
मैं नहीं जानती ये प्यारी सी कहानी किसने लिखी है, मुझे मेरी एक दोस्त ने ये forward किया था….पर जिसने भी लिखी है बहुत अच्छी लिखी है और मैं उसे THANK YOU कहना चाहती हूँ. 🙂
Yess yes yesssss!!! I knew it. 😀 So, happy moment is here for Salman fans 🙂 No jail, Its only BAIL for Salman Khan 🙂 Oh I’m so happy for him 🙂 finally, my prayers worked! I knew god will never punish such an angel soul. May god bless him alwayssss 🙂
Salman Khan was sentenced to five years in jail for 2002 “Hit-and-Run” case. As the actor was to be taken to prison, the Bombay High Court gave him a two-day respite in the form of interim bail.
He is a Superstar, a great human being, a wonderful actor, he is the one & only “Mr. Salman Khan”. I love him not only because I’m his fan but because of his goodness. Yesterday, I was in tears when I saw this news on TV. I am totally unhappy and sad with the court verdict. Salman in jail for 5yrs, Oh God!!! 😥 I cannot digest this sentence itself….believing it is impossible!!! 😦 Let me tell you first that Salman never shy away from his mistakes, he always face it and it was an accident, plus he was not driving but when you are a celebrity you have to pay a big price. Salman was not driving but when his car have an accident and footpath people know that its Salman Khan, they said that salman was driving. Yes a person was killed in this accident but has the government still do something for these people sleeping on the footpath??? The answer is NO.
We all know, everyone has imperfections and no one is perfect but if you have guts to confront your problems and deal with it like it should then will let tomorrow speaks for himself. India has a big Bollywood industry, where actors and actresses do lots of charity but do you surely know, where are the money going exactly??? Where are those activists working for vulnerable people to shape the life of poor people??? Where are they??? We are in world where internet, whatsapp, facebook, twitter and where everything is moving fast and dynamic, still they can’t help people sleeping on the road/footpath. This is a SHAME!!!! 😖 There are rapist, murders, criminals in any form why not taking damn final judgement for them too??? Well some are focusing because it is SALMAN KHAN and nothing else. But BRAVO to the actor, he run a charity and help truly people who needs it, when the government should have done all this.
The people who are injured said they want compensation and give a damn about the court verdict. These are people who are always in need before and after the accident precisely. I don’t know what’s right or wrong? What’s good or bad? All I know is, For me Salman is not guilty, he is innocent and is always fair. I’m supporting him and will always support him. He is not guilty!!! The truth is, those who showing sympathy to victims & calling it justice, I bet they don’t care if someone murders someone in front of them. There are people who has hit and run cases and killed 6 or more people and they suffered only 2 years while only one person was killed which is still sad yet salman get 5 years jail?? Disgusting!!! 😖 I’m saying this not because I’m his fan but I know he is a good man. If Salman really want to go away with this case he has his contacts. But he faces the consequences no matter what. This is Salman Khan! 🙂 I admire his work, his kindness. He is real, genuine and loyal. Yes, I love his acting, his smile but mostly I love him as a human being. He is great! A man with golden heart and as an actor he is in his best. I cannot imagine any other actor taking his position. It is Salman and the love of his fans that make his movies cross most of the times the 100cr mark.
Last night, I saw an old interview of salman on TV. I really think he’s being targeted for who he is! Go watch it, he always said he wasn’t driving the car and now his driver admits and the judge completely ignored his side of the story. This is clearly injustice. Just because he’s famous you sentence him for five years? What about rapists that are moving freely? Well, I will always support and love him. He is amazing, no one cannot ever become like him, god made him & broke the mould. 🙂 He is real, and he does what he believes, he has saved the lives of many people. Whatever happened that night, was just a mistake. It was an accident. He is not a criminal. And no matter what I will always love him and will support him 🙂 and I’m very happy for Salman that he got the bail for 2 days. 🙂 Finally, a bit relief for him, his family and fans. He is the man who stands for everyone always and now I stand for him. 🙂
This is really shame, some celebrities earn and don’t donate but Salman donates most of what he earns (I think, 60%) and still this judgement….very bad! 😥 Salman is not guilty and please don’t always think of religion, for god’s sake GROW UP! I’m still little upset and sad for him, and now all I can say is I’m supporting him and will always support him. He is just the BEST. We love you salman, I hope all will be fine. #IStandWithSalmanKhan #ISupportSalmanKhan
We all have that friend we may not talk to them everyday, but they understand us more than anyone in the world. You know, what I think is a best friend is not that person who supports you or advice you or stands by your side every time. He/She is one such person who understands you a bit more than you understand Yourself. And if you have that person in your life, trust me You’re one lucky person! 🙂
I know I’m little late but like it say, “It’s Never Too Late” 😉 So, Let’s start!
I’m very lucky, in the past few weeks I’ve been nominated for two awards. I’ve posted for The Infinity Dream Award already and This is for The Liebster Award which I have been nominated by the awesome Yashika. 🙂 Thank you so much dear for nominating me. 🙂 Please check out her amazing blog here.
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# Nominate 10 other bloggers who you feel are worthy of this award.
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My Answers to Yashika’s Questions:-
#1 Which place is your dream destination? Ans- Ah! I have two, London and Venice. ❤
#2 What’s your opinion about politics? Ans- I’m not “political type person” I am not sure what my political views are, I don’t know much about politics. So, I’m sorry I cannot say much about it, but yes personally I don’t like politics!
#3 Which person(s) is your primary concern? Mention the name and why? Ans- Right now? My mother. She is my priority, I love her so much and her safety & health is my primary concern.
#4 What is the craziest thing that you have done so far? Ans- The one I don’t remember 😉 Lol joking 😛 Well, I think none so far. You know, I am quite boring. 😛
#5 Books or movies – which one do you prefer and why? Ans- Definitely BOOKS. I’m more of a word person than of a visual one.
#6 If you had superpowers, what would you do? Ans- Well I don’t know, it depends what superpower I have. But I honestly I would like to help poor people and animals.
#7 Who is your best friend at WordPress? Ans- No one. I don’t have any best friend here.
#8 Make a wish! Ans- Done! I made it mentally 😛 I hope it’ll come true!
#9 Tell me your favourite joke! Ans- Can’t tell one, there are so many.
#10 Describe me and my blog. Ans- You and your blog, both are just Amazing. 🙂 ❤
1. What does blogging mean to you? 2. Your Favorite quote? 3. Your favorite cuisine? 4. What is more important and why:- Love or Money? 5. Choose one:- Facebook, Twitter or Whats app? and Why? 6. What’s your Dream Job? 7. Your dream destination? 8. Who is your favorite person on earth and why do you choose that person? 9. Who is your favorite author and your favorite book? 10. If you could change one thing about this World, what would it be?
Congratulations to all the nominees. And again thank you so much Yashika. I’m really grateful to be nominated. 🙂