Life is too short…Live, Love, Laugh, Be You!

Dear Girls,

Are you able to be an engaging, creative, dynamic woman with OR without a man??? Or do you sometimes fall into the trap of being the clingy, fearful girlfriend who can hardly function without him…??? Don’t worry! lots of us have done it….nobody is BORN understanding this dynamic. If you’re anything like me, you might just have to screw it up pretty good before you figure it out. And happily for all of us, becoming an awesome, in-demand girlfriend is a skillset you can learn, remaining faithful should not be an option but a priority. Live simply, love generously, speak truthfully, when you talk say what you mean and mean what you say. Do your best and leave everything else to the powers above you. 🙂 When you stop expecting people and situation to be perfect, you can start to appreciate them for what and who they are. Give your best in your relationship and then let it be. If it’s meant to be, it will be. Don’t hold yourself down with things you cannot control. If you feel like your relationship is sinking, think about what the cause is as it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down and always surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you. 🙂

Always try to figure out who is worth your attention and who is just taking advantage of you. Finally, remember that the first to apologize is the bravest, the first to forgive is the strongest and the first to move forward is the happiest. 🙂 For those who lack trust in their relationship or who have broken relationship, just know that because someone has been in your life for many years, doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be a point at which you finally decide to let go. You have to understand that people come and people go. That is life! So stop holding on to those who have let go of you long ago to avoid had I know after wasting your years. Sometimes the changes we don’t want in life are the changes we need to grow and growth and changes may be painful but nothing in life is as painful as staying stuck where you don’t belong.
Finally, accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what could be and never let your fear decide your future. Just keep calm and be positive, good things will surely happen in your life. 🙂 🙂 And remember, If you ever need anyone to talk to about literally anything, I AM always here to listen no matter what okay! 🙂

Stay happy girls ❤