And, whenever she talked about him…. She would slowly get all nostalgic and in no time she started to sound as if she was about to cry. Her eyes would well up and her voice would choke.
And when she got this full, she took a deep breath, gulped some water and with a smile on her lips, she just changed the subject as she drank her tears inside.
This is how we all dealt with pain, didn’t we??? We just ignored it and changed the subject…. And this shows people how strong we are. Truly, sometimes Ignorance is a Bliss! 😉
So true ! Loved the details in first paragraph so much… Feelings truly expressed 👌
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Glad you liked it! 🙂 Thank for the comment.
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I wish I could practice this 😉
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Don’t worry, you’ll learn how to deal with it as time passes! 😉
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Ya ya.. Gotcha !! 😉
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pain and time teach us many things and it’s good too, but life is not all about pain and suffering. take a breath and look its too good to forget your pain.
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Well said! I totally agree with you.
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Ignorance is bliss, which I completely agree. But what I find very difficult is trying to ignore. My stupid mind will be like, “hey you remember that thing that happened?” “Are you forgetting something? That think you wanted to forget”. My mind is very messed up in such cases, which frustrates me the most.
Nice post with a thought, btw. 😀
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Sometimes, it happens to me too. You know, everything is in our mind. our whole world is in our mind. So, to control the world or anything that bothers you, all you need to do is control your mind. 🙂
Anyways, thanks for the comment!
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Perfectly put. But if only we ( or I) could control my mind.
You’re welcome. 😀
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Of course!
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I agree .we have all faced this kind of situation .
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Yes!
Thanks for the comment 🙂
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