My Views

And….. I’m Just Like That!

Hello Lovely Friends 🙂 Its been a long longggg time since I’ve posted anything. One thing I have to say that I missed you all…I really missed all my readers 🙂 WordPress is actually a part of my life now and you all are my WordPress Family! (Big Heart)

So it’s raining here. I don’t know why but I just love the rain❤️ Yes! I love every season. But this season is amazing. I love the rain a lot. I love the weather when its about to rain. The beautiful smell of the mud after a little pouring, its a romantic weather you know. Sitting by the window, having my hot coffee, reading a good novel or going for a long drive, I just love to do all that about the rain 🙂 yes, I  do wanna travel around the world….and thats all I wanna do, it’s just not my fantasy but its my big dream 🙂  I just don’t want anything and its totally okay if no one is with me, all I want is just take a backpack and roam around the globe. Go to a place, do an amazing job, earn some money, go to another place, do another good job. Oh yes! I know, I am a dreamer. And maybe, I dream about the things I know won’t come true in a million years.

You know, I am a big foodie. 😋 Like almost every Indian I also LOVE FOOD 😉 I love to eat, I don’t like cooking much but I use to cook sometimes, I just love food. When I want to eat something and my heart says NO then I’m like lil conscious…but then I am like….”Oh C’mon!, let it be…I am going to eat.” And I think, this is my biggest problem. 😜 but I believe that life is too short to give a damn about what others think and I honestly don’t care about others. So maybe that’s why, I eat a lot and all I can do is EAT 😜 I really don;t care what people think about me all I know is…I’m just like that and I love myself! 🙂

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Random Thoughts

Is self love important? Yes! it is….

You know you have come so far when you look back and smile about what you have achieved. But at the same times, tears are there for what you have lost during the process. That’s life for you, you are happy, sad and what not but accomplishment is that you live it without any hesitation. 🙂

Fall in love, irrespective of the fact that whether the other person would feel the same or not. I always write about love (even though my own love life is non – existing 😛 ), because it is the very basic need (ofcourse, after Roti, Kapda and Makaan 😀 ) we human have.

People fall in love, then come out of it and fall again. Love doesn’t have to be permanent, you can fall out of it but what’s important is what you feel is true. We love different people in different ways, we all do right? Fall in that Ishq Wala Love too, people often fall in love but have no guts to tell their partners the same. But for me, what’s important is that along with loving your partner you should love yourself too. Everyone of you is going to fall for someone someday, and for that day please remember that the one you fall for can love you back or they may not, what you need to know is that you’re important too. I often noticed that, people becomes so choosy in a relationship, which leads them to break their relationship, people lose respect for each other, becomes irritated…if you too face or faced the same problem, I’m telling you don’t worry if you happen to let go of someone, let them go forever. Always remember that self love is very important, if he/she doesn’t respect you, he/she doesn’t deserve you. You should first love yourself.

Loving yourself is far more important than any other thing, no I’m not talking about the Self Obsession, but at least letting yourself being the priority once in a while. That’s more important than anything 🙂 We should fall in love with ourselves before falling in love with others….nobody can give you more love than yourself but yeah this is also true that sometimes people can love you more than what you do, but remember only SOME TIMES not EVERY TIME 😉

So have a great time friends 🙂
fall in love, spread love but first Love Yourself! ❤

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Words from the Heart

Hope….

I don’t know why but today I am feeling good and happy. There was a time in my life when I thought I could never be happy again, when I thought that I would never be able to overcome that trauma, when I thought my life is simply useless. I still remember those sleepless nights and that hopeless situation. I thought why always bad things happen to me? What did I do? I was filled with sadness. Darkness conquered my life totally. I was totally helpless when suddenly in between something happened…..Something good!

Something which just changed my life and my outlook altogether. Yes, they said “Time heals everything” and time actually started healing my wounds. I don’t know why I started getting back on track and this time, even stronger. I don’t know if this was because of time or because I got used to my awful situation, but whatever it was, I was happy now because I was overcoming day by day.

Days passed by, now I saw myself and smiled. I thought of my past and smiled again, not because I moved on successfully but because I learnt a lesson, a lesson for a lifetime that…“In life, we may get a box full of DARKNESS quite often but we must realize that someday or another, it will too, prove to be a GIFT”

Often in life we just expect things to be as we want. If we get it the way we want it to be, we are all sort but if we don’t then we get disappointed, sadness curbs us and we fill ourselves with darkness. We must realize that whatever happens in life, if good, then we must be glad, if bad, then we must learn from it and take it as experience in this unexpected journey called “LIFE” because this is what life is actually all about. 🙂

Today, I am happy and filled with “HOPE” that somewhere down the lane I will get what I want, will be happy and satisfied always. I wish this “HOPE” stays with me forever and ever! ❤

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Words from the Heart

TRUST….The bitter truth of life!

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TRUST is one of the most biggest things in the world…. isn’t it? and one of the worst things when someone breaks your trust… I personally think the biggest mistake people make in life is breaking someone’s trust because when someone breaks your trust once, it’s hard to believe anything they say after and from thereon that person could never be able to trust anyone or anything again 😦 More so, they will always be skeptical while trusting anyone else too, because once your trust breaks, you know how much it hurts and you’ll never risk anything to have even a remote chance of experiencing that pain.

I’ve experienced it, I know how much it hurts and I can’t trust anyone ever. I think, when someone breaks your trust, then you don’t hate that person, you just start hating yourself and become a lame or living dead body inside somewhere. And I guess this is one of the reasons how fake our generation has become, no one is real, they all have so much pain in their hearts, they all are broken inside, maybe that’s why nobody is real…everyone is too scared to put trust in someone because of their pasts, somehow everyone is hiding their emotions, because just let’s be honest, someone somewhere has gotten his trust broken and has never found a way to trust anyone from thereon…..And, This is the bitter truth of life! 😉

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Uncategorized, Words from the Heart

Happy New Year 2016 Everyone! :-)

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AND…. HERE COMES THE END AGAIN…GOOD BYE 2015!! 🙂

It’s 31st December again, seems like yesterday when I celebrated the New year 2015 with my friends and family, when we partied, when we made some new promises, when we all enjoyed and celebrated that new start…And see, now we’re again going for a new start in the next few hours 🙂 Its so strange time is actually flying and for me at least 2015 just simply flew away…!

Coming to this year, it was normal for me, sometimes bad and sometimes good. I learnt many things, I got to know myself even better, I found myself a bit more mature as well, I learnt some positivities and of course some negativities of life. This year was full of fun and excitement, ups and downs. I made new friends, broke up with some, fought with my loved ones and at some points learned to move on and discovered that happiness lies in small things that we do for our loved ones and the list goes on. This year was a bit sad for me as well, I lost some of my really close ones especially my dearest teacher, who met with an accident in 3rd December, that news of his death was really shocking for me, I was literally broken, he meant so much to me, he always treated me like his daughter. He was so nice and I will never ever forget him. So overall for some reasons 2015 was a blend of good and bad times of my life which I can never forget. Today on 31st December again I feel so relieved, I passed another year finally 😛 When everyone says “This year also went by as if it just lasted for seconds” I say “Big No..!! Not at all..!!” …..But somehow it was not that bad also 😛 It was good! 😀

This year I got so much love, I got so much hates but then again I got a lot of love 🙂 And with this now I must say that I’ve changed a lot. But anyways, I will definitely cherish this year throughout my life, Afterall life is beautiful and really worth living, ups and downs are part of life, as life is like a chain a circle it revolves around and again comes to the same point and the same way we are at the end point today and after a few hours a new circle, a new chain will start! So friends let’s welcome this new start with a big smile 🙂 and promise to try & make this start even better, so that next year we can say in the end of 2016 that YES! 2016 was even wonderful than 2015 🙂

I want to say one more thing, Before this year ends I want to take this opportunity and thank everyone of you 🙂 I want to thank everyone who has read my work, thanks for liking my thoughts, appreciating my write ups and providing your valuable inputs, simply I would like to thank all of you for your love, support and everything ❤ Like really, in some way or the other you all have helped me and provided a direction to my life. Every comment, every suggestion and every confession has been of utmost importance to me. I have made friends from several parts of India and from outside as well and they have always supported my thoughts and have somehow believed in me. I seriously want to thank you for being with me. It has been a great pleasure to know all of you. Maybe you guys don’t know, but you’ve helped me through the low moments of my day many a times and of course increased my happiness many times. I wish I could somehow repay that, really I feel so good so blessed when I got your suggestion, comments or whatever. THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS! 🙂 I hope you all stay with me in the upcoming year and all the upcoming years of my life. 🙂

Oh yes one more thing I forgot, As the year is about to end I want you to share your feelings, thoughts, problems or whatever, if you want someone just look “I’m Here” You can share anything regarding me, regarding your life or anything you guys wanna get off your chest. I promise to hear without judging. So, if you wanna share then C’mon…. Shoot those untold words out to me! 🙂

By the way do you guys have any New Year Resolution?? 😛 If yes then share it with me, I would love to know 😀 😉 Well I don’t make New Year Resolutions because it always breaks 😛 So, just like every time another year passed and I am as usual without any resolution 😀 ..But anyways, just like every year I hope next year proves to be better than the previous one 🙂 Truly everyone is destined with some good times and this year is one of those good and bad times mixed you know 😉 All in all at the end today I have a little smile on my face and so many experiences in my mind and most importantly so many memories in my heart. I hope few more years pass like this….Gifting me some more memorable memories!

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And for those who did not have anything good or special this year I am sure forthcoming years would bring lotssssss of happiness, May be it’ll show you what you actually wanted to see….Yes! I can assure you with “Personal Experience” 😉 I just hope another year passes by just like this and everyone gets what they wish for and most importantly have a good year. Enjoy the last day of the year. We are on the gateway of new year and I wish this new year is actually “Happy” one…. So “BEST OF LUCK” to everyone for this new start…God bless… ❤ Happy New Year ❤ Cheersssss…!! 😉

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Random Thoughts

That Girl . . . .

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She was the kind of girl who was usually quiet in large groups of people or around a lot of people. She always heard everyone but kept her response to bare minimum. It was like you only saw the real her if you were close to her. No one could actually guess that she’d be a revelation thereafter. She smiled and laughed a lot, especially at the most inappropriate times.
She was crazy and a hopeless romantic. Sometimes she was weird and sometimes like an angel. She was moody, crazy but very simple and honest.
She tripped over life’s struggles and relished every joy life gifted her. And she was the hardest person to offend but sometimes the smallest of things made her feel horrible.
She hated sharing her problems with anyone because she never liked anyone worrying about her. But whenever anyone around her, be it her friend or even a stranger wanted to share some stuff, she was the most obvious choice they had. She was a great listener. She was the living definition of a giver coated with simplicity and beauty who always preferred to think than to talk.
She was awkward, clumsy, weird, shy, simple, boring and sometimes strange…..But she’d accepted all the situations. Her presence was weak and people often unintentionally ignored her, but she accepted herself wholeheartedly. And that’s why she was Different. She was not like the other girls. She was happy and did not feel alone, because she was her own best friend. 🙂

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Let’s learn to live and express!

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I think, It probably happens with all of us. Sometimes we just cannot express ourselves in front of anyone, its quite weird, but true and it really happens. Today I just want to say, please don’t hide your emotions, feeling or yourself. It’ll hurt more so please don’t! Sometimes we almost ruin our life by desensitizing our self way too much. We are all afraid to say too much, to love too much, to feel too deeply and to let people know that they actually mean something to us. I wonder if we realize that caring for someone doesn’t mean that we are stupid or crazy. It does make us a little rough or little different but some people are worth it and maybe more. 🙂 But personally, I don’t think having a caring, loving heart is something to be ashamed of. From where I see, there is something breathtakingly beautiful in those moments of smaller magic when you speak with your pure soul in front of someone important in all honesty or when you express your emotions/feelings in front of someone special, Oh, that moment makes your life perfect for a while. 🙂
I think its high time we break these shackles of faking ourselves and be outright honest and straight forward. Just, let that girl or boy know you love her/him with all your heart. Tell your dad he inspires you every single day. Tell your mom you care for her as much as she does. Tell your brother/sister you love and respect him/her a lot. Tell your friends they are very important to you. And most importantly tell YOURSELF that you’re free to live however you want to. 🙂
Now please! Express, express and express 😉 Open yourself up instead of hardening yourself and building those walls. Trust me, there is much more courage in this than that. So love yourself, express yourself and live freely! 🙂

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”- Bruce Lee

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