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किताबें (Books)…..!

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हम सभी ने कभी न कभी ये सुना होगा कि किताबें (Books) हमारी सबसे अच्छी दोस्त होती हैं. पता नहीं आप लोग इस बात पे विश्वास करते हैं या नहीं, पर मैं इस बात पर भरोसा करती हूँ. मुझे सच में लगता है के किताबें इंसान कि सबसे अच्छी दोस्त होती हैं, ना वो हमसे कभी कुछ मांगती है, ना कभी कोई वादा लेती हैं, बस हमेशा हमको ही सहारा देती हैं. मन उदास होने पे कोई दोस्त आये या न आये पर अगर अच्छी किताब मिल जाये तो कुछ देर के लिए दुःख भी भूला जा सकता है. ज़िन्दगी में दोस्त तो धोखा भी दे जाते है पर यह किताबें नहीं, आप इनकी परवाह करो या न करो, यह हमेशा आपकी परवाह करती हैं. चाहे यह आपके कमरे के किसी कोने में पड़ी रहे, जिसपे धूल लग रही हो, बरसो से आपने इन्हें छुआ भी न हो, फिर भी आप जब इन्हें अपने पास लाओगे ये तब आपको पूरा सुकून, आनंद देगी. जब दिल उदास हो और कोई अच्छी किताब पढ़ ली जाए तो होंठों पे एक मुस्कान आ जाती हैं, जब अकेलापन महसूस करो और एक अच्छी किताब पास हो तो वो अकेलापन भी दूर हो जाता है. किताब पढ़ते-पढ़ते, वक़्त कब गुज़र जाता है पता नहीं चलता. मैंने कहीं पढ़ा था कि एक अच्छी किताब आपको हँसाती है, रुलाती भी है, उसमें सारी भावनाएं होती हैं. वो सारे वक़्त आपका दिल लगाए रखती है. सच ही तो है एक किताब पढ़ने के ज़रिये हम एक नयी ज़िन्दगी को जी लेते हैं. 🙂

आपका तो पता नहीं पर मैं जब भी कोई किताब या कहानी पढ़ती हूँ तो उसको चित्रों (images or visuals) में सोचती हूँ और ऐसा मानती हूँ के ऐसा अगर मेरे साथ होता तो? या ये मेरी ही कहानी होती तो? या भविष्य में ऐसा मेरे साथ हो तो? तब क्या सोचूंगी मैं? और इन्ही सब बातों के साथ मैं ना सिर्फ उस कहानी को बल्कि उन पात्रों को भी जी लेती हूँ जो उस कहानी में होते है, मैं हँसती भी हूँ और रोती भी हूँ. मैं अब अपने कुछ काम को लेके ज़्यादा किताबें नहीं पढ़ पाती, लेकिन जितनी भी पढ़ती हूँ उन सब में खुद को ढालने कि कोशिश करती हूँ, एक अलग, काल्पनिक ज़िन्दगी जीने कि कोशिश करती हूँ. 🙂

मेरे ज़्यादा दोस्त नहीं हैं, कुछ दोस्त हैं पर ज़्यादा नहीं. और सच कहूँ तो मुझे दोस्तों कि ज़्यादा ज़रूरत पड़ती भी नहीं. मुझे अकेले रहना पसंद है, मेरी ज़िन्दगी में म्यूजिक और बुक (Music and Books) यह दो चीज़ें ऐसी हैं जिनके होते हुए मुझे कभी किसी और चीज़ कि ज़रूरत महसूस नहीं हुयी. यहाँ WordPress पे मेरे काफी friends हैं, मैं कभी चाहती हूँ तो उनसे बात कर लेती हूँ, कभी जब मैं यहाँ नहीं आती तब music और अपने काम (works) में व्यस्त (busy) रहती हूँ. और बाकी समय मैं कोई अच्छी किताब पढ़ने में निकाल देती हूँ. एक funny बात बताऊँ? मैं इन किताबों से बातें भी करती हूँ 😀 कभी मन उदास होता है, या अजीब सा लगता है तो इन किताबों में या music सुनके मैं अपने सवालों के जवाब ढूंढने कि कोशिश करती हूँ, पता नहीं जवाब मिलते हैं या नहीं पर दिल को कुछ देर के लिए सुकून मिल जाता है. 🙂 किसी और का तो मैं नहीं कह सकती पर ये किताबें मुझे बहुत प्यारी है, मैं चाहे बरसो तक इनको अपने पास रखी रहूँ, इनकी तरफ देखूँ भी नहीं लेकिन जब दोबारा इनके पास आ के इनको पढ़ती हूँ तो ये उतनी ही ख़ुशी से मुझे अपना लेती हैं. और इसीलिए मैं मानती हूँ के ये किताबें मेरी बहुत अच्छी दोस्त हैं.

मैं उम्मीद करती हूँ के इस पोस्ट (post) को पढ़ते वक़्त आप लोग ज़्यादा bore नहीं हुए होंगे. पता नहीं मैंने ये post क्यों लिखी, वो भी हिंदी (hindi) में, ये जानते हुए के मेरे बहुत सारे readers ठीक से हिंदी नहीं जानते फिर भी आज मेरा मन हुआ के मैं अपने दिल कि इस बात को अपनी मातृभाषा में ही लिखूँ  इसीलिए लिख दिया. वैसे आप लोग किताबों के बारे में क्या सोचते हैं, ज़रूरी बताइएगा. 🙂

Thank you, मेरी इस post को पढ़ने के लिए !! 🙂

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Random Thoughts

Infinite Truth

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Behind every rude, arrogant guy/girl whom you call impolite, is his/her broken heart and a story that changed his/her attitude towards life!

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Random Thoughts

Love!

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LOVE 🙂 the most beautiful Word and Feeling in the world. 🙂 Do you know the meaning of Love? Do you guys believe in Love??? Well, I think the biggest problem with people and love nowadays is that some people are so desperate for love that they are even ready to settle for false relationships. I really think that Forced feelings, Mixed emotions and Wrong decisions are taken when people see the least bit of satisfaction of their desire to find love and I guess this is one of the major reasons why relationships fail nowadays.

I am being a little philosophical here but yes, these days its easier to say the other person “I Love You” than to explain them the importance of this word in your life.” I love you’s are casual, intensities do not exist and people don’t even know what they are getting into when they say they are in love. It’s sad and sometimes funny but unfortunately TRUE!

And this happens not because our hearts are ready to fall in love but because our minds are convinced of wanting something so badly that we’ll settle for a false image of it when we’re lonely. People need to understand that these 3 magical words (I Love You) are so important and saying I love you is not wrong but the sanctity of that feeling called love is almost over 😦 now its just a status to be with someone all the time…I mean, How Cheap! No one do understand that being with their oneself is much more important than being with fake person. I think we all need to learn this before we say we are in love!

You know, if you are not happy being single, you will never be happy in a fake relationship. We need to understand that “Being single is much wiser than being in a fake relationship.” Love is not a joke, drama or game…Its a feeling, it is more than words, respect it…respect your love, your life and yourself. That’s all!!!

Just stay happy guys, and DON’T FORGET TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!! 🙂

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Random Thoughts

Is self love important? Yes! it is….

You know you have come so far when you look back and smile about what you have achieved. But at the same times, tears are there for what you have lost during the process. That’s life for you, you are happy, sad and what not but accomplishment is that you live it without any hesitation. 🙂

Fall in love, irrespective of the fact that whether the other person would feel the same or not. I always write about love (even though my own love life is non – existing 😛 ), because it is the very basic need (ofcourse, after Roti, Kapda and Makaan 😀 ) we human have.

People fall in love, then come out of it and fall again. Love doesn’t have to be permanent, you can fall out of it but what’s important is what you feel is true. We love different people in different ways, we all do right? Fall in that Ishq Wala Love too, people often fall in love but have no guts to tell their partners the same. But for me, what’s important is that along with loving your partner you should love yourself too. Everyone of you is going to fall for someone someday, and for that day please remember that the one you fall for can love you back or they may not, what you need to know is that you’re important too. I often noticed that, people becomes so choosy in a relationship, which leads them to break their relationship, people lose respect for each other, becomes irritated…if you too face or faced the same problem, I’m telling you don’t worry if you happen to let go of someone, let them go forever. Always remember that self love is very important, if he/she doesn’t respect you, he/she doesn’t deserve you. You should first love yourself.

Loving yourself is far more important than any other thing, no I’m not talking about the Self Obsession, but at least letting yourself being the priority once in a while. That’s more important than anything 🙂 We should fall in love with ourselves before falling in love with others….nobody can give you more love than yourself but yeah this is also true that sometimes people can love you more than what you do, but remember only SOME TIMES not EVERY TIME 😉

So have a great time friends 🙂
fall in love, spread love but first Love Yourself! ❤

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Words from the Heart

Hope….

I don’t know why but today I am feeling good and happy. There was a time in my life when I thought I could never be happy again, when I thought that I would never be able to overcome that trauma, when I thought my life is simply useless. I still remember those sleepless nights and that hopeless situation. I thought why always bad things happen to me? What did I do? I was filled with sadness. Darkness conquered my life totally. I was totally helpless when suddenly in between something happened…..Something good!

Something which just changed my life and my outlook altogether. Yes, they said “Time heals everything” and time actually started healing my wounds. I don’t know why I started getting back on track and this time, even stronger. I don’t know if this was because of time or because I got used to my awful situation, but whatever it was, I was happy now because I was overcoming day by day.

Days passed by, now I saw myself and smiled. I thought of my past and smiled again, not because I moved on successfully but because I learnt a lesson, a lesson for a lifetime that…“In life, we may get a box full of DARKNESS quite often but we must realize that someday or another, it will too, prove to be a GIFT”

Often in life we just expect things to be as we want. If we get it the way we want it to be, we are all sort but if we don’t then we get disappointed, sadness curbs us and we fill ourselves with darkness. We must realize that whatever happens in life, if good, then we must be glad, if bad, then we must learn from it and take it as experience in this unexpected journey called “LIFE” because this is what life is actually all about. 🙂

Today, I am happy and filled with “HOPE” that somewhere down the lane I will get what I want, will be happy and satisfied always. I wish this “HOPE” stays with me forever and ever! ❤

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Words from the Heart

TRUST….The bitter truth of life!

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TRUST is one of the most biggest things in the world…. isn’t it? and one of the worst things when someone breaks your trust… I personally think the biggest mistake people make in life is breaking someone’s trust because when someone breaks your trust once, it’s hard to believe anything they say after and from thereon that person could never be able to trust anyone or anything again 😦 More so, they will always be skeptical while trusting anyone else too, because once your trust breaks, you know how much it hurts and you’ll never risk anything to have even a remote chance of experiencing that pain.

I’ve experienced it, I know how much it hurts and I can’t trust anyone ever. I think, when someone breaks your trust, then you don’t hate that person, you just start hating yourself and become a lame or living dead body inside somewhere. And I guess this is one of the reasons how fake our generation has become, no one is real, they all have so much pain in their hearts, they all are broken inside, maybe that’s why nobody is real…everyone is too scared to put trust in someone because of their pasts, somehow everyone is hiding their emotions, because just let’s be honest, someone somewhere has gotten his trust broken and has never found a way to trust anyone from thereon…..And, This is the bitter truth of life! 😉

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Happy New Year 2016 Everyone! :-)

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AND…. HERE COMES THE END AGAIN…GOOD BYE 2015!! 🙂

It’s 31st December again, seems like yesterday when I celebrated the New year 2015 with my friends and family, when we partied, when we made some new promises, when we all enjoyed and celebrated that new start…And see, now we’re again going for a new start in the next few hours 🙂 Its so strange time is actually flying and for me at least 2015 just simply flew away…!

Coming to this year, it was normal for me, sometimes bad and sometimes good. I learnt many things, I got to know myself even better, I found myself a bit more mature as well, I learnt some positivities and of course some negativities of life. This year was full of fun and excitement, ups and downs. I made new friends, broke up with some, fought with my loved ones and at some points learned to move on and discovered that happiness lies in small things that we do for our loved ones and the list goes on. This year was a bit sad for me as well, I lost some of my really close ones especially my dearest teacher, who met with an accident in 3rd December, that news of his death was really shocking for me, I was literally broken, he meant so much to me, he always treated me like his daughter. He was so nice and I will never ever forget him. So overall for some reasons 2015 was a blend of good and bad times of my life which I can never forget. Today on 31st December again I feel so relieved, I passed another year finally 😛 When everyone says “This year also went by as if it just lasted for seconds” I say “Big No..!! Not at all..!!” …..But somehow it was not that bad also 😛 It was good! 😀

This year I got so much love, I got so much hates but then again I got a lot of love 🙂 And with this now I must say that I’ve changed a lot. But anyways, I will definitely cherish this year throughout my life, Afterall life is beautiful and really worth living, ups and downs are part of life, as life is like a chain a circle it revolves around and again comes to the same point and the same way we are at the end point today and after a few hours a new circle, a new chain will start! So friends let’s welcome this new start with a big smile 🙂 and promise to try & make this start even better, so that next year we can say in the end of 2016 that YES! 2016 was even wonderful than 2015 🙂

I want to say one more thing, Before this year ends I want to take this opportunity and thank everyone of you 🙂 I want to thank everyone who has read my work, thanks for liking my thoughts, appreciating my write ups and providing your valuable inputs, simply I would like to thank all of you for your love, support and everything ❤ Like really, in some way or the other you all have helped me and provided a direction to my life. Every comment, every suggestion and every confession has been of utmost importance to me. I have made friends from several parts of India and from outside as well and they have always supported my thoughts and have somehow believed in me. I seriously want to thank you for being with me. It has been a great pleasure to know all of you. Maybe you guys don’t know, but you’ve helped me through the low moments of my day many a times and of course increased my happiness many times. I wish I could somehow repay that, really I feel so good so blessed when I got your suggestion, comments or whatever. THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS! 🙂 I hope you all stay with me in the upcoming year and all the upcoming years of my life. 🙂

Oh yes one more thing I forgot, As the year is about to end I want you to share your feelings, thoughts, problems or whatever, if you want someone just look “I’m Here” You can share anything regarding me, regarding your life or anything you guys wanna get off your chest. I promise to hear without judging. So, if you wanna share then C’mon…. Shoot those untold words out to me! 🙂

By the way do you guys have any New Year Resolution?? 😛 If yes then share it with me, I would love to know 😀 😉 Well I don’t make New Year Resolutions because it always breaks 😛 So, just like every time another year passed and I am as usual without any resolution 😀 ..But anyways, just like every year I hope next year proves to be better than the previous one 🙂 Truly everyone is destined with some good times and this year is one of those good and bad times mixed you know 😉 All in all at the end today I have a little smile on my face and so many experiences in my mind and most importantly so many memories in my heart. I hope few more years pass like this….Gifting me some more memorable memories!

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And for those who did not have anything good or special this year I am sure forthcoming years would bring lotssssss of happiness, May be it’ll show you what you actually wanted to see….Yes! I can assure you with “Personal Experience” 😉 I just hope another year passes by just like this and everyone gets what they wish for and most importantly have a good year. Enjoy the last day of the year. We are on the gateway of new year and I wish this new year is actually “Happy” one…. So “BEST OF LUCK” to everyone for this new start…God bless… ❤ Happy New Year ❤ Cheersssss…!! 😉

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