Life is a great bundle of Little Things ! :)
Yeah it’s weird that a social site or an app makes you realize that you exist so much in other people’s lives and they still think about you, they wanna talk to you, they still want to have a conversation with you… They still hold something for you.
Yet they never say.
“Why don’t they?” the seemingly innocuous question I ask myself as it hits me.
You know, life will be so much easy, if people just say what they mean. But…that never happens. The mask never falls off! 😦
I think, It probably happens with all of us. Sometimes we just cannot express ourselves in front of anyone, its quite weird, but true and it really happens. Today I just want to say, please don’t hide your emotions, feeling or yourself. It’ll hurt more so please don’t! Sometimes we almost ruin our life by desensitizing our self way too much. We are all afraid to say too much, to love too much, to feel too deeply and to let people know that they actually mean something to us. I wonder if we realize that caring for someone doesn’t mean that we are stupid or crazy. It does make us a little rough or little different but some people are worth it and maybe more. 🙂 But personally, I don’t think having a caring, loving heart is something to be ashamed of. From where I see, there is something breathtakingly beautiful in those moments of smaller magic when you speak with your pure soul in front of someone important in all honesty or when you express your emotions/feelings in front of someone special, Oh, that moment makes your life perfect for a while. 🙂
I think its high time we break these shackles of faking ourselves and be outright honest and straight forward. Just, let that girl or boy know you love her/him with all your heart. Tell your dad he inspires you every single day. Tell your mom you care for her as much as she does. Tell your brother/sister you love and respect him/her a lot. Tell your friends they are very important to you. And most importantly tell YOURSELF that you’re free to live however you want to. 🙂
Now please! Express, express and express 😉 Open yourself up instead of hardening yourself and building those walls. Trust me, there is much more courage in this than that. So love yourself, express yourself and live freely! 🙂
“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”- Bruce Lee
” People come, people go- they’ll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favorite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past. -Nicholas Sparks “
Yes! It happens. People come in our lives, a few stay with us for a lifetime, and a lot of them don’t, leaving imprints in our hearts. We go through betrayals and heartbreaks, but what keeps us going is love. We keep searching it everywhere, at every step of our life. And at times, the search is completed, at times not. We think its love, but it turns out a lot like love, and this is what keeps us going. Sometimes they are like lovely memories and sometimes they are like lessons. Yes! People do come and enter your life then after sometime, they would leave and that’s it. It’s over and just have to accept it and move on, and one thing I’m sure that there’s always a reason why you knew them. It must not be clear for you that moment but sooner or later, you will discover it. Getting hurt is part of life but staying hurt after the pain is a foolish choice. So, just forget everything. MOVE ON! Life is waiting for you. 🙂
Why do people taunt others? I mean, I really don’t understand this. Because, I never taunt. If I don’t like something I will let you know straightly and will help you to correct your mistake or I will just stay quite. Because you know, those people who taunt actually consider themselves better from others. And personally, I do not like such people. I think, they taunt others to hide their own weaknesses and problems. This doesn’t makes them smart. I hate such people.
So simply…Be straight-forward, world is already full of bad people. Never sugarcoat your words. When you say exactly what you mean you’ll be heard, understood and respected. Always be true to yourself to be Yourself. 🙂
I read many times, people say “if someone comes back after leaving you, feel lucky and accept them, they are loyal.”
But I say NO! just forgive them but never trust them again. They’re not loyal. They just come to you for their own comfort and they will surely leave you at the end. So don’t trust them. You are not a toy, just leave him/her because you deserve better!
Respect & Love yourself! 🙂