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Love!

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LOVE 🙂 the most beautiful Word and Feeling in the world. 🙂 Do you know the meaning of Love? Do you guys believe in Love??? Well, I think the biggest problem with people and love nowadays is that some people are so desperate for love that they are even ready to settle for false relationships. I really think that Forced feelings, Mixed emotions and Wrong decisions are taken when people see the least bit of satisfaction of their desire to find love and I guess this is one of the major reasons why relationships fail nowadays.

I am being a little philosophical here but yes, these days its easier to say the other person “I Love You” than to explain them the importance of this word in your life.” I love you’s are casual, intensities do not exist and people don’t even know what they are getting into when they say they are in love. It’s sad and sometimes funny but unfortunately TRUE!

And this happens not because our hearts are ready to fall in love but because our minds are convinced of wanting something so badly that we’ll settle for a false image of it when we’re lonely. People need to understand that these 3 magical words (I Love You) are so important and saying I love you is not wrong but the sanctity of that feeling called love is almost over 😦 now its just a status to be with someone all the time…I mean, How Cheap! No one do understand that being with their oneself is much more important than being with fake person. I think we all need to learn this before we say we are in love!

You know, if you are not happy being single, you will never be happy in a fake relationship. We need to understand that “Being single is much wiser than being in a fake relationship.” Love is not a joke, drama or game…Its a feeling, it is more than words, respect it…respect your love, your life and yourself. That’s all!!!

Just stay happy guys, and DON’T FORGET TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!! 🙂

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My Views

And….. I’m Just Like That!

Hello Lovely Friends 🙂 Its been a long longggg time since I’ve posted anything. One thing I have to say that I missed you all…I really missed all my readers 🙂 WordPress is actually a part of my life now and you all are my WordPress Family! (Big Heart)

So it’s raining here. I don’t know why but I just love the rain❤️ Yes! I love every season. But this season is amazing. I love the rain a lot. I love the weather when its about to rain. The beautiful smell of the mud after a little pouring, its a romantic weather you know. Sitting by the window, having my hot coffee, reading a good novel or going for a long drive, I just love to do all that about the rain 🙂 yes, I  do wanna travel around the world….and thats all I wanna do, it’s just not my fantasy but its my big dream 🙂  I just don’t want anything and its totally okay if no one is with me, all I want is just take a backpack and roam around the globe. Go to a place, do an amazing job, earn some money, go to another place, do another good job. Oh yes! I know, I am a dreamer. And maybe, I dream about the things I know won’t come true in a million years.

You know, I am a big foodie. 😋 Like almost every Indian I also LOVE FOOD 😉 I love to eat, I don’t like cooking much but I use to cook sometimes, I just love food. When I want to eat something and my heart says NO then I’m like lil conscious…but then I am like….”Oh C’mon!, let it be…I am going to eat.” And I think, this is my biggest problem. 😜 but I believe that life is too short to give a damn about what others think and I honestly don’t care about others. So maybe that’s why, I eat a lot and all I can do is EAT 😜 I really don;t care what people think about me all I know is…I’m just like that and I love myself! 🙂

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Is self love important? Yes! it is….

You know you have come so far when you look back and smile about what you have achieved. But at the same times, tears are there for what you have lost during the process. That’s life for you, you are happy, sad and what not but accomplishment is that you live it without any hesitation. 🙂

Fall in love, irrespective of the fact that whether the other person would feel the same or not. I always write about love (even though my own love life is non – existing 😛 ), because it is the very basic need (ofcourse, after Roti, Kapda and Makaan 😀 ) we human have.

People fall in love, then come out of it and fall again. Love doesn’t have to be permanent, you can fall out of it but what’s important is what you feel is true. We love different people in different ways, we all do right? Fall in that Ishq Wala Love too, people often fall in love but have no guts to tell their partners the same. But for me, what’s important is that along with loving your partner you should love yourself too. Everyone of you is going to fall for someone someday, and for that day please remember that the one you fall for can love you back or they may not, what you need to know is that you’re important too. I often noticed that, people becomes so choosy in a relationship, which leads them to break their relationship, people lose respect for each other, becomes irritated…if you too face or faced the same problem, I’m telling you don’t worry if you happen to let go of someone, let them go forever. Always remember that self love is very important, if he/she doesn’t respect you, he/she doesn’t deserve you. You should first love yourself.

Loving yourself is far more important than any other thing, no I’m not talking about the Self Obsession, but at least letting yourself being the priority once in a while. That’s more important than anything 🙂 We should fall in love with ourselves before falling in love with others….nobody can give you more love than yourself but yeah this is also true that sometimes people can love you more than what you do, but remember only SOME TIMES not EVERY TIME 😉

So have a great time friends 🙂
fall in love, spread love but first Love Yourself! ❤

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That Special Friend….

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Sometimes…. you have a fight with your best friend for no specific reason but an accumulation of a lot of reasons and you stay without talking to each other for days at a stretch. Best friends sometimes fight for very silly reasons or maybe sometimes a misunderstanding or the other crops up and they decide to part ways.

Sometimes they just need a break….And then this fight goes on…its not even a fight actually. Sometimes the distance is needed to let them know how much they love each other. 🙂

They stay without talking to each other for days, weeks, months or even years but one fine day…if both of them still yearn for that friendship, they get over the silent phase and decide to sort out everything. They bring down their fake egoistic walls and finally go with their heart. They retrieve the penultimate feeling they once had and finally make a pact that no matter what, they won’t stay apart.

But sometimes, none of them takes a step and they walk with a burden on their hearts for all their lives. They relish their memories for their whole freaking life but they don’t take a step and unburden themselves.

If anyone of you has any incomplete friendship like this, then please go out there and complete it. Go, unburden yourself!!!! 🙂

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Words from the Heart

Hope….

I don’t know why but today I am feeling good and happy. There was a time in my life when I thought I could never be happy again, when I thought that I would never be able to overcome that trauma, when I thought my life is simply useless. I still remember those sleepless nights and that hopeless situation. I thought why always bad things happen to me? What did I do? I was filled with sadness. Darkness conquered my life totally. I was totally helpless when suddenly in between something happened…..Something good!

Something which just changed my life and my outlook altogether. Yes, they said “Time heals everything” and time actually started healing my wounds. I don’t know why I started getting back on track and this time, even stronger. I don’t know if this was because of time or because I got used to my awful situation, but whatever it was, I was happy now because I was overcoming day by day.

Days passed by, now I saw myself and smiled. I thought of my past and smiled again, not because I moved on successfully but because I learnt a lesson, a lesson for a lifetime that…“In life, we may get a box full of DARKNESS quite often but we must realize that someday or another, it will too, prove to be a GIFT”

Often in life we just expect things to be as we want. If we get it the way we want it to be, we are all sort but if we don’t then we get disappointed, sadness curbs us and we fill ourselves with darkness. We must realize that whatever happens in life, if good, then we must be glad, if bad, then we must learn from it and take it as experience in this unexpected journey called “LIFE” because this is what life is actually all about. 🙂

Today, I am happy and filled with “HOPE” that somewhere down the lane I will get what I want, will be happy and satisfied always. I wish this “HOPE” stays with me forever and ever! ❤

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Words from the Heart

I just realized!

And yes that was the tragedy of my life. I couldn’t make everyone else feel as deeply as I did always. I could not easily convey what I felt, maybe because I was too complex in my own self. My heart was a deep well of unexplored emotions and to keep it short, what was tragic was that I could understand everyone…but no one really could understand me. But anyways sometimes I think, there is no use of making everyone understand your emotions or feelings. All this cruel world knows is to judge people without even knowing the emotions they hold at the time of sharing those feeling in front of you. So its better keep it short and simple only because only few deserves your true emotions to be shared with them not everyone……A big rude truth about this cruel world!

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That’s Me. . .

I will give you enough amount of chances before I let you go, Infact I firmly believe in forgiveness till the other person genuinely regrets their mistakes…But if I feel that you have only selfishness for me and you won’t mind letting me go…trust me, you’re done. You do not even deserve me. I will let you go at that very moment and never look back at you. And once I get you out of my life, I am pretty sure I won’t want you anymore then.

That’s just how I like things to be! And if its arrogance, so be it! 😉

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Random Thoughts

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“Terrorism” I just hate this word!! I really don’t understand, why Terrorists killing innocents? What they need to stop Terror Activiteis?? Feeling so sad! 😦 I think, It’s definitely a well planned attack by the terrorist on Punjab like Mumbai!! My sincere respects are with the people who lost their lives in the Gurdaspur Terror Attack RIP! & I’m proud of the Indian army & Police.

And then the man who ignited the concept of achieving dreams even if it means you’ve to set your wings on fire. Dr. APJ Abdul Kalam, We’ll miss you Sir! 😦 RIP Dr. Kalam!

#Salute #Respect

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