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Paradox of life…!

When you lose someone who is a major part of your entire universe, it hits you. It hits you so hard, it shakes you emotionally and mentally.

And you find yourself distracted and sleepless at 2 a.m. wondering about all the chances you didn’t take, all the things you didn’t say, all the feelings you didn’t share, all the pictures you didn’t click, everything that could have just made both of you a little more of each other’s.

Coz the truth is, back then, you always thought you had forever…forever with him or her….But you don’t. Actually, we never do….

And that’s the paradox of life, feelings last forever….moments and people don’t!

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I am here…!!

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Hello to all my Readers 🙂 Its been a long since I’ve posted anything and I am sorry for being lazy and not being regular over here.

Today I am going to place my thoughts on an issue which is very important to discuss and this issue always makes me sad. We seriously need to talk about it. You know guys, I get so sad and disturb anytime I read news of someone committing suicide, I don’t understand when did suicide become an option?? and why?? What makes people so weak that they decide to end their life? That they decide to pause their life, dreams and everything else? I am deeply appalled at the recent incidents of suicide by youngsters. It’s horrifying to even try and understand that guy/girl’s mindset which made them end their life.

I am just so sad and shocked to hear about Arjun Bhardwaj’s story. Guys we need to understand that Suicide is not the only option in life, if you’re facing any trouble just go and talk to your parents, best friend or anyone but please don’t even think about suicide. Doing suicide is not a solution. Please think about your family and friends. Don’t hurt them and yourself or think about suicide. Trust me, by doing that you’re gonna hurt other people even more. You see, it’s been a while since I started writing here and I am glad to have heard a lot of personal stories, some great love and friendship experiences and some really grave grievances over this period.

I’ve always felt thankful when someone has considered me worthy enough of being a part of their story or their life. This made me feel special every time. Keeping this in mind, I want to repeat that apart from the reader-writer relationship that we share, I can sometimes be your friend, your adviser and your confidante too. So, my dear reader if you’re struggling, facing any problem you always have a friend here who’ll be there with you and won’t judge you, won’t let you feel alone, its a promise! Please reach out to me whenever you feel depressed, sad, happy or weird and always remember that whatever you’re going through will pass too soon.

Like they say “There is sunrise after every night” That’s just how the universe works. Please remember that there’s a solution to every problem!

God bless you,
Much Love! ❤

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Friendship!

You know what Friendship means to me? Friendship to me means Respect, Acceptance, and Understanding. It means being there for one another through good times and bad. It means being honest with each-other and accepting each-other just as you are. My family and friends think I am little crazy because of the things that I do but that’s okay am quite agree with them 😉 and they don’t even have to understand all these thing, all I want from them is Love and Acceptance. Just accept and love me and they do the same, more than I deserve sometimes 🙂 Though, I’ve had bad friendship experiences in the past but I still believe in it. I think, friendship is not only about all day chit-chats, going out and partying, making random plans and doing crazy adventures. It is mainly about being there for each-other, lifting each-other up and making each-other smile when we forget how to do that! 🙂

Do you believe in Friendship??? What do you think about it???  🙂

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My thoughts are my own!

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“Our thoughts create our world.”  Do you believe in this line? Well I do! My thoughts are my own. They evolve in the some of the deepest part of the brain, based on what my eyes and ears convey to my brain. They may be simple or complex…but they are mine just Mine! I like sharing my thoughts with others, I mean not all but few of them. I believe my thoughts are the experiences of my life…They are mine and they are very important and close to me. I think through our thinking we define reality and the reason about it. I usually talk with my thoughts. They mature with time, they grow and they change. In the darkest hour, when I am totally alone, they are my only friend…. My Bestfriend ! ❤

When the whole world sleeps, they appear in front of me, making me smile, making me sad, making me crying, making me excited, depressed or happy. They play with me, they laugh with me, they cry with me, they talked to me, they are always with me! Last night some thoughts made me sad. (Sorry, I don’t want to share them here.) And with those thoughts in mind, I don’t know when I fell asleep, those thoughts appeared in my dreams, talked to me and disappeared when I woke up today morning. But they are still running in my mind. After all they always stay with me.
My thoughts, my opinion, my dreams are very precious to me…So I’ve lock them in my heart. I want to keep them safe in my heart. I have learned to live alone in this over-crowded world. I am alone but I am happy in my world after with my thoughts. Yes, I often feel alone and perhaps, all of us are or at least most of us are. My family is with me and they love me so much but you know still there’s something missing, something different that I always wanted to have but I guess it never worked. Sometimes I truly, deeply, madly immersed in my thoughts. I easily get lost in my thoughts. And I really think that Its not selfishness, It’s just spending time with the one who is with you from the time you are born to the time you breathe your last “The inner soul” 🙂

My thoughts remain with me. In one moment, some thoughts make me deeply depressed and the next moment some colorful thoughts bring smile to my face. In a moment they are very naughty and the second moment they are very serious. The hide-and-seek continues within. I think our thoughts and emotions are intertwined…..A thought can give rise to a feeling, and a feeling can give rise to a thought. I actually think that feelings or emotions and thoughts are cousins 😉
So yeah, my thoughts changed my world, they’ve already changed me but I still love them because they are mine and with me. I am very happy with them. My thoughts and my dreams are my own and they remain deep within me forever! ❤

“I’m glad that, no matter how much others try to influence them, all of my thoughts are mine…!!!” 🙂

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New Year Resolution?

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A very HAPPY NEW YEAR to all the readers of my blog!!!! ❤ May 2017 be a successful and happy year bringing you and your family good health and a lot of happiness 🙂

New Year Resolution?” This was pinned on the tac board of my room today. The first thing that came to my mind is I don’t believe in new year’s resolutions. But then, I realized “it’s a new year, new beginning, new challenges, new life” 2016 has gone and 2017 is finally here girl! Though I don’t have scars on my body but last year was no less than a battleground for me – A place where I had to survive no matter what. It was a mixture of joys and sorrows like every other year. There were tears there were smiles, but tears more I guess.

I started pondering upon the days lost, hours that sank, minutes that fathomed and moments that faded, heart breaks caused by lovers, friends and the “so called friends”. The melodies that made my feet tap, my heart race and my head to forget all the insecurities. Inspirations and motivations I received from all those smiling faces and each time I dared to build myself back from a pond of tears and fears.

The times when I wanted to yell so loud that my eardrums would burst and the other times when not even a pinch of sound reached me in the midst of the loudest ground. The nights when sleep seemed to hate me like an enemy and the mornings when I didn’t want to leave the comfy bed but I had to.
Now, when I look back and thought about 2016, the ride through the year made me realize I’m not as weak as the thunders in my soul, I’ll make it through again n again and I’ll live this journey!

“SURVIVE” ….I wrote in bolds and decided to make it my new year’s resolution for this year. I’ll survive in all ups and downs of life and try to make more people smile. I knew it won’t be easy but will be memorable for sure! 🙂

So this is mine 🙂  Have you guys made any new year‘s resolutions?  What’s yours? I’d love to know! 😉

Once again, wish you all a blissful 2017 Stay happy!!!! 🙂
Chao for now!

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Memories and Experiences . . . !

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Dear Reader,

Today I want to say something to you, This one is a lil long but I hope you still read it. 🙂 The year is about to end. Another 11 days and BAM!!!! another year goes by. Everyone of us would have a huge basket of memories of 2016. Not every memory would be happy, not every memory would be the one you want to remember…but still, they are all responsible for who you are, right now. So, I wanna request you something today. I want you to lay back a little, shut your eyes and repeat 2016 in front of your eyes.

The winters of Jan and Feb, spring and holi of March, session ending in schools and colleges in April, heat of May, rain of June, July, August, your birthday, your best friend’s birthday, your girlfriend/boyfriend’s birthday, your adventures, your trips, your secret hangout sessions, your unusual crushes, Diwali, your breakup, your lost friends, arguments, sad moments, happy moments, failure and everything….I want you to remember each and every memory of 2016 today…When you do this, I know you’ll not be at peace. You’ll feel your lips turning into a curve and then widening into a grin and then something would flash and moisten your eyes. You might even drop a tear or two (like me)…And so, there would be a quick flashback of your life. The regrets, the words unsaid…a plethora of emotions would churn inside you. But don’t stop. Hold yourself together and get through it, once again. Feel the strength and happiness within you. Don’t feel depressed or upset, dear friend. You might even feel a certain void within yourself and its okay. We all feel that too. Its life’s priceless EXPERIENCE! 🙂

So don’t lose hope. A new year will bring some more new experiences and your life will again be one hell or heaven of a ride. You’ll still get through everything. So, cheer up and gear up for the challenges and happiness of 2017 !! 🙂

Merry Xmas and a Happy New Year to All in advance ❤

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Welcome December! :-)

Hello Friends 🙂 So, December is here….

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The month of Christmas, when lamps will be light, gifts will be exchanged and trees will be decorated. December is the last month of the year and the last month that everyone wishes to be the best one. The month where hope, reflection and also love are rising above. Personally, for me December somehow make me turned into a “HAPPY” mode on, because in this last month I reflect on what I already did in the last 11 month and also plan on what I will do in the next 11 month 🙂 So just wishing you all a memorable and wonderful December. ❤
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 2017 in advance….Stay happy!

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