Is self love important? Yes! it is….

You know you have come so far when you look back and smile about what you have achieved. But at the same times, tears are there for what you have lost during the process. That’s life for you, you are happy, sad and what not but accomplishment is that you live it without any hesitation. 🙂

Fall in love, irrespective of the fact that whether the other person would feel the same or not. I always write about love (even though my own love life is non – existing 😛 ), because it is the very basic need (ofcourse, after Roti, Kapda and Makaan 😀 ) we human have.

People fall in love, then come out of it and fall again. Love doesn’t have to be permanent, you can fall out of it but what’s important is what you feel is true. We love different people in different ways, we all do right? Fall in that Ishq Wala Love too, people often fall in love but have no guts to tell their partners the same. But for me, what’s important is that along with loving your partner you should love yourself too. Everyone of you is going to fall for someone someday, and for that day please remember that the one you fall for can love you back or they may not, what you need to know is that you’re important too. I often noticed that, people becomes so choosy in a relationship, which leads them to break their relationship, people lose respect for each other, becomes irritated…if you too face or faced the same problem, I’m telling you don’t worry if you happen to let go of someone, let them go forever. Always remember that self love is very important, if he/she doesn’t respect you, he/she doesn’t deserve you. You should first love yourself.

Loving yourself is far more important than any other thing, no I’m not talking about the Self Obsession, but at least letting yourself being the priority once in a while. That’s more important than anything 🙂 We should fall in love with ourselves before falling in love with others….nobody can give you more love than yourself but yeah this is also true that sometimes people can love you more than what you do, but remember only SOME TIMES not EVERY TIME 😉

So have a great time friends 🙂
fall in love, spread love but first Love Yourself! ❤

That Special Friend….

 

Sometimes…. you have a fight with your best friend for no specific reason but an accumulation of a lot of reasons and you stay without talking to each other for days at a stretch. Best friends sometimes fight for very silly reasons or maybe sometimes a misunderstanding or the other crops up and they decide to part ways.

Sometimes they just need a break….And then this fight goes on…its not even a fight actually. Sometimes the distance is needed to let them know how much they love each other. 🙂

They stay without talking to each other for days, weeks, months or even years but one fine day…if both of them still yearn for that friendship, they get over the silent phase and decide to sort out everything. They bring down their fake egoistic walls and finally go with their heart. They retrieve the penultimate feeling they once had and finally make a pact that no matter what, they won’t stay apart.

But sometimes, none of them takes a step and they walk with a burden on their hearts for all their lives. They relish their memories for their whole freaking life but they don’t take a step and unburden themselves.

If anyone of you has any incomplete friendship like this, then please go out there and complete it. Go, unburden yourself!!!! 🙂

TRUST….The bitter truth of life!

TRUST is one of the most biggest things in the world…. isn’t it? and one of the worst things when someone breaks your trust… I personally think the biggest mistake people make in life is breaking someone’s trust because when someone breaks your trust once, it’s hard to believe anything they say after and from thereon that person could never be able to trust anyone or anything again 😦 More so, they will always be skeptical while trusting anyone else too, because once your trust breaks, you know how much it hurts and you’ll never risk anything to have even a remote chance of experiencing that pain.

I’ve experienced it, I know how much it hurts and I can’t trust anyone ever. I think, when someone breaks your trust, then you don’t hate that person, you just start hating yourself and become a lame or living dead body inside somewhere. And I guess this is one of the reasons how fake our generation has become, no one is real, they all have so much pain in their hearts, they all are broken inside, maybe that’s why nobody is real…everyone is too scared to put trust in someone because of their pasts, somehow everyone is hiding their emotions, because just let’s be honest, someone somewhere has gotten his trust broken and has never found a way to trust anyone from thereon…..And, This is the bitter truth of life! 😉

A Long-Distance Relationship…

I think winter is easily the most romantic season…do you agree? 😉 Winters are always welcomed with so many flowers in bloom, the cup filled with hot coffee, so many delicious dishes and ofcourse quilt under which you text secretly and pretending your guardian that you are in slumber. Don’t you feel that crazy teenage feeling of love warmth when you are with your lover.  🙂

“ Soumya too was madly in love with Ved. Almost a year the couple always spend good times together, no fights, no lies just LOVE.

It was Sunday afternoon, when she was waiting for Ved’s call but was pretending her parents that she’s not well.

” Soumya, dear will you please shut the door? We’ll be back soon! ” Her parents told her.

“ Okay Mom ” She said and smiled and finally close the door behind. She jumped in joy that she can now talk to Ved as her parents were not around her for some minutes or maybe hours. She jumped on her bed, unplugged her cell from charging and started checking her new feeds on Facebook and Whatsapp message.

” Ved, baby what are you doing? ” She text him.

” Working baby ” He replied with warming smiley.

” Call me right now ” She replied him back.

” Later or do voice call ” He replied.

” I said Call me right now.. else kattiiii! ” She replied and turn off her net and sit silently.

After fifteen minutes he called, Soumya lips parted to smile and she chuckled on the call. She wanted to tell him but he kept on saying….. ” Whatsapp par baat kar naa or do voice call ”

Later he started yawning and hung the phone without even listening to her….

The moment he hung up, streams of tears started flowing down her cheeks, making her cheeks go warm and wet, she was in tears, her nose red and eyes full of tears of being hurt…

She wiped and sealed the envelop of her entrance form, above the entrance form on big letters ‘ Faculty of Management Studies, Delhi University ‘ was written.

Yes they were long distance couple, Ved is from Mumbai and Soumya live in Delhi. Soumya wanted to do MBA and she’d got the admission in DU. She wanted to give this news to Ved and surprise him. Alas! all her plan of surprising him crashed with disconnected call… she stood up and stop the song playing ” Tum hi ho” which was Ved’s favorite song since they met with each other. She sobbed a little more and shut down the PC .

She gently place the envelop inside her bag and angrily placed her books on the study table back. She curled into her quilt and cried that whole night. She ignored his texts and gazed at their photos and her long texts in which she expressed her love for him .

In between somewhere she lost trust on him being hurt.

She didn’t speak a word whole day. And in the night with full of pain she slept, with a wish that one day her love would understand her feelings!”

You know, love is something that we all need and when we’re in love we expect a lot. Every time we want more love, feelings, loyalty and it hurt so much when you are doing so much for someone but they never appreciate. It hurts even more that the one who loves more started detaching himself or herself knowing they can be hurt back, knowing they will never think about that person anymore. So mutual understanding is very much important in any relationship. If we want a happy good relationship, so we have to realize or understand other person’s feelings first!! 🙂

Sometimes…we just have to move on!

” People come, people go- they’ll drift in and out of your life, almost like characters in a favorite book. When you finally close the cover, the characters have told their story and you start up again with another book, complete with new characters and adventures. Then you find yourself focusing on the new ones, not the ones from the past. -Nicholas Sparks “

Yes! It happens. People come in our lives, a few stay with us for a lifetime, and a lot of them don’t, leaving imprints in our hearts. We go through betrayals and heartbreaks, but what keeps us going is love. We keep searching it everywhere, at every step of our life. And at times, the search is completed, at times not. We think its love, but it turns out a lot like love, and this is what keeps us going. Sometimes they are like lovely memories and sometimes they are like lessons. Yes! People do come and enter your life then after sometime, they would leave and that’s it. It’s over and just have to accept it and move on, and one thing I’m sure that there’s always a reason why you knew them. It must not be clear for you that moment but sooner or later, you will discover it. Getting hurt is part of life but staying hurt after the pain is a foolish choice. So, just forget everything. MOVE ON! Life is waiting for you. 🙂

A “NO” is good! ….3 day Quote Challenge:- DAY 1

“I am thankful to all those who said NO to me. It’s because of them I did it myself.” – Albert Einstein

I’ve faced so many problems in life, but the good thing is I learned a lot from them. 🙂 Those things made me stronger and a positive person today. I personally think, a “No” should never be taken as an offence, instead it should be seen as an opportunity to do the task on your own. Remember this when you come in contact with an problem, it surely gives you the power to learn to do it yourself. This “no” will give you confidence. Take it as a challenge and this challenge will make all other things around you much easier and once you do it successfully you surely will have a new level of confidence which will make you take up other challenges in life. I believe that every day you have is the opportunity to learn and experience something and someone new, everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right. You believe less so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. So, sometimes a Big NO is also good, just accept it with a smile. 🙂 Anything that happens in your life is bound to affect you and what comes out of it always depends on how we decide to handle the situation. By changing the negatives into the positives, a NO into YES, we can easily make ourselves happy. So smile because it’s NO 😉
Today, I am thankful to all my supporters, especially my family and friends 🙂 ❤

And…I’m thankful to all my haters too, they all give me the confidence and push me to work harder and believe that what God has for YOU-is only FOR YOU, nobody can take that away when it’s yours, not even your Haters! 😉 So, Thanks my dear Haters 😛 you all are my motivation, you remind me of how awesome I am! 😉 Lol 😛 Thanks for the “NO” You’ve made me who I am today. 🙂
So, be infinitely grateful for every ‘no’ you get in life, it only means that you are just one step closer to your dreams! 🙂

And thank you Supreet for nominating me 🙂

A conversation between Mother & Daughter!

“What has been the most painful moment of your life???” She asks her daughter as they sip their coffee.

She (the daughter) flashes a short smile and then replies. “Ummm, I don’t think I can categorize but there’s this one moment that flashes before my eyes.
It happened around 4 years back when my Maa had an operation. It was not too much of a major surgery but it was a great deal for me. I don’t think I ever really knew pain until I saw her moving in pain under that effect of anesthesia. It was at that moment that I realized how much I loved her and this was something I’d never want to see ever in my life. I just couldn’t handle seeing her in pain.” And then, she held her mom’s hand and said- “I love you Maa, You are everything to me!” ❤

And…they smiled and hugged each other! 🙂

Love…for family!

Love….. that is not only about friends and boyfriend or girlfriend!
People these days don’t understand the importance of family which should be there prime priority. I pity such people sometimes. From where I see, love originates from family itself. 🙂 They are the first people you really love. But I think, people has lost the meaning of love for families these days! 😦 #PoorPeople
Love your family no matter what! You don’t know what you have until you lose it and believe me, it tears you apart when the time comes. So, don’t waste time love your family, love your friends and love yourself 🙂 You don’t know which day is your last!

That Friend….

And sometimes, we all hate that one friend who is the reason behind our broken belief in friendship!!

That Friend….

We all have that friend we may not talk to them everyday, but they understand us more than anyone in the world. You know, what I think is a best friend is not that person who supports you or advice you or stands by your side every time. He/She is one such person who understands you a bit more than you understand Yourself. And if you have that person in your life, trust me You’re one lucky person! 🙂