And….. I’m Just Like That!

Hello Lovely Friends 🙂 Its been a long longggg time since I’ve posted anything. One thing I have to say that I missed you all…I really missed all my readers 🙂 WordPress is actually a part of my life now and you all are my WordPress Family! (Big Heart)

So it’s raining here. I don’t know why but I just love the rain❤️ Yes! I love every season. But this season is amazing. I love the rain a lot. I love the weather when its about to rain. The beautiful smell of the mud after a little pouring, its a romantic weather you know. Sitting by the window, having my hot coffee, reading a good novel or going for a long drive, I just love to do all that about the rain 🙂 yes, I  do wanna travel around the world….and thats all I wanna do, it’s just not my fantasy but its my big dream 🙂  I just don’t want anything and its totally okay if no one is with me, all I want is just take a backpack and roam around the globe. Go to a place, do an amazing job, earn some money, go to another place, do another good job. Oh yes! I know, I am a dreamer. And maybe, I dream about the things I know won’t come true in a million years.

You know, I am a big foodie. 😋 Like almost every Indian I also LOVE FOOD 😉 I love to eat, I don’t like cooking much but I use to cook sometimes, I just love food. When I want to eat something and my heart says NO then I’m like lil conscious…but then I am like….”Oh C’mon!, let it be…I am going to eat.” And I think, this is my biggest problem. 😜 but I believe that life is too short to give a damn about what others think and I honestly don’t care about others. So maybe that’s why, I eat a lot and all I can do is EAT 😜 I really don;t care what people think about me all I know is…I’m just like that and I love myself! 🙂

Hope….

I don’t know why but today I am feeling good and happy. There was a time in my life when I thought I could never be happy again, when I thought that I would never be able to overcome that trauma, when I thought my life is simply useless. I still remember those sleepless nights and that hopeless situation. I thought why always bad things happen to me? What did I do? I was filled with sadness. Darkness conquered my life totally. I was totally helpless when suddenly in between something happened…..Something good! ❤

Something which just changed my life and my outlook altogether. Yes, they said “Time heals everything” and time actually started healing my wounds. I don’t know why I started getting back on track and this time, even stronger. I don’t know if this was because of time or because I got used to my awful situation, but whatever it was, I was happy now because I was overcoming day by day.

Days passed by, now I saw myself and smiled. I thought of my past and smiled again, not because I moved on successfully but because I learnt a lesson, a lesson for a lifetime that…“In life, we may get a box full of DARKNESS quite often but we must realize that someday or another, it will too, prove to be a GIFT” ❤

Often in life we just expect things to be as we want. If we get it the way we want it to be, we are all sort but if we don’t then we get disappointed, sadness curbs us and we fill ourselves with darkness. We must realize that whatever happens in life, if good, then we must be glad, if bad, then we must learn from it and take it as experience in this unexpected journey called “LIFE” because this is what life is actually all about. 🙂

Today, I am happy and filled with “HOPE” that somewhere down the lane I will get what I want, will be happy and satisfied always. I wish this “HOPE” stays with me forever and ever! ❤

 

Happy New Year 2016 Everyone! :-)

AND…. HERE COMES THE END AGAIN…GOOD BYE 2015!! 🙂

It’s 31st December again, seems like yesterday when I celebrated the New year 2015 with my friends and family, when we partied, when we made some new promises, when we all enjoyed and celebrated that new start…And see, now we’re again going for a new start in the next few hours 🙂 Its so strange time is actually flying and for me at least 2015 just simply flew away…!

Coming to this year, it was normal for me, sometimes bad and sometimes good. I learnt many things, I got to know myself even better, I found myself a bit more mature as well, I learnt some positivities and of course some negativities of life. This year was full of fun and excitement, ups and downs. I made new friends, broke up with some, fought with my loved ones and at some points learned to move on and discovered that happiness lies in small things that we do for our loved ones and the list goes on. This year was a bit sad for me as well, I lost some of my really close ones especially my dearest teacher, who met with an accident in 3rd December, that news of his death was really shocking for me, I was literally broken, he meant so much to me, he always treated me like his daughter. He was so nice and I will never ever forget him. So overall for some reasons 2015 was a blend of good and bad times of my life which I can never forget. Today on 31st December again I feel so relieved, I passed another year finally 😛 When everyone says “This year also went by as if it just lasted for seconds” I say “Big No..!! Not at all..!!” …..But somehow it was not that bad also 😛 It was good! 😀

This year I got so much love, I got so much hates but then again I got a lot of love 🙂 And with this now I must say that I’ve changed a lot. But anyways, I will definitely cherish this year throughout my life, Afterall life is beautiful and really worth living, ups and downs are part of life, as life is like a chain a circle it revolves around and again comes to the same point and the same way we are at the end point today and after a few hours a new circle, a new chain will start! So friends let’s welcome this new start with a big smile 🙂 and promise to try & make this start even better, so that next year we can say in the end of 2016 that YES! 2016 was even wonderful than 2015 🙂

I want to say one more thing, Before this year ends I want to take this opportunity and thank everyone of you 🙂 I want to thank everyone who has read my work, thanks for liking my thoughts, appreciating my write ups and providing your valuable inputs, simply I would like to thank all of you for your love, support and everything ❤ Like really, in some way or the other you all have helped me and provided a direction to my life. Every comment, every suggestion and every confession has been of utmost importance to me. I have made friends from several parts of India and from outside as well and they have always supported my thoughts and have somehow believed in me. I seriously want to thank you for being with me. It has been a great pleasure to know all of you. Maybe you guys don’t know, but you’ve helped me through the low moments of my day many a times and of course increased my happiness many times. I wish I could somehow repay that, really I feel so good so blessed when I got your suggestion, comments or whatever. THANK YOU SO MUCH GUYS! 🙂 I hope you all stay with me in the upcoming year and all the upcoming years of my life. 🙂

Oh yes one more thing I forgot, As the year is about to end I want you to share your feelings, thoughts, problems or whatever, if you want someone just look “I’m Here” You can share anything regarding me, regarding your life or anything you guys wanna get off your chest. I promise to hear without judging. So, if you wanna share then C’mon…. Shoot those untold words out to me! 🙂

By the way do you guys have any New Year Resolution?? 😛 If yes then share it with me, I would love to know 😀 😉 Well I don’t make New Year Resolutions because it always breaks 😛 So, just like every time another year passed and I am as usual without any resolution 😀 ..But anyways, just like every year I hope next year proves to be better than the previous one 🙂 Truly everyone is destined with some good times and this year is one of those good and bad times mixed you know 😉 All in all at the end today I have a little smile on my face and so many experiences in my mind and most importantly so many memories in my heart. I hope few more years pass like this….Gifting me some more memorable memories!

And for those who did not have anything good or special this year I am sure forthcoming years would bring lotssssss of happiness, May be it’ll show you what you actually wanted to see….Yes! I can assure you with “Personal Experience” 😉 I just hope another year passes by just like this and everyone gets what they wish for and most importantly have a good year. Enjoy the last day of the year. We are on the gateway of new year and I wish this new year is actually “Happy” one…. So “BEST OF LUCK” to everyone for this new start…God bless… ❤ Happy New Year ❤ Cheersssss…!! 😉

That Girl . . . .

She was the kind of girl who was usually quiet in large groups of people or around a lot of people. She always heard everyone but kept her response to bare minimum. It was like you only saw the real her if you were close to her. No one could actually guess that she’d be a revelation thereafter. She smiled and laughed a lot, especially at the most inappropriate times.
She was crazy and a hopeless romantic. Sometimes she was weird and sometimes like an angel. She was moody, crazy but very simple and honest. She tripped over life’s struggles and relished every joy life gifted her. And she was the hardest person to offend but sometimes the smallest of things made her feel horrible.
She hated sharing her problems with anyone because she never liked anyone worrying about her. But whenever anyone around her, be it her friend or even a stranger wanted to share some stuff, she was the most obvious choice they had. She was a great listener. She was the living definition of a giver coated with simplicity and beauty who always preferred to think than to talk.
She was awkward, clumsy, weird, shy, simple, boring and sometimes strange…..But she’d accepted all the situations. Her presence was weak and people often unintentionally ignored her, but she accepted herself wholeheartedly. And that’s why she was Different. She was not like the other girls. She was happy and did not feel alone, because she was her own best friend. 🙂

Let’s learn to live and express!

I think, It probably happens with all of us. Sometimes we just cannot express ourselves in front of anyone, its quite weird, but true and it really happens. Today I just want to say, please don’t hide your emotions, feeling or yourself. It’ll hurt more so please don’t! Sometimes we almost ruin our life by desensitizing our self way too much. We are all afraid to say too much, to love too much, to feel too deeply and to let people know that they actually mean something to us. I wonder if we realize that caring for someone doesn’t mean that we are stupid or crazy. It does make us a little rough or little different but some people are worth it and maybe more. 🙂 But personally, I don’t think having a caring, loving heart is something to be ashamed of. From where I see, there is something breathtakingly beautiful in those moments of smaller magic when you speak with your pure soul in front of someone important in all honesty or when you express your emotions/feelings in front of someone special, Oh, that moment makes your life perfect for a while. 🙂
I think its high time we break these shackles of faking ourselves and be outright honest and straight forward. Just, let that girl or boy know you love her/him with all your heart. Tell your dad he inspires you every single day. Tell your mom you care for her as much as she does. Tell your brother/sister you love and respect him/her a lot. Tell your friends they are very important to you. And most importantly tell YOURSELF that you’re free to live however you want to. 🙂
Now please! Express, express and express 😉 Open yourself up instead of hardening yourself and building those walls. Trust me, there is much more courage in this than that. So love yourself, express yourself and live freely! 🙂

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”- Bruce Lee

We decide our own Happiness…3 day Quote Challenge:- DAY 3 (Last Day) :-)

“The mind is its own place, and in itself can make a Heaven of Hell, a Hell of Heaven.” -John Milton

I love this quote of John Milton. This is really true and great! 🙂 We decide our own happiness. Your mind can transform any place into one that you would hate or a place that you love. Don’t get upset, when things go wrong or when something bad happens to you. Just stay positive and try to leave your troubles behind. Don’t get mad or lose hope. Stay happy and positive in your mind and try to enjoy the feeling of new things, try to learn something new from them. Turn that hell into a heaven. Be optimistic and you can see the beauty in almost anything! 🙂

Love yourself…..3 day Quote Challenge:- DAY 2

“Our first and last love is self-love.” – Christian Nestell Bovee

Remember, happiness comes from within. Nobody will ever make you happy or love you if you don’t love yourself. So love yourself & listen to your heart. 🙂

A “NO” is good! ….3 day Quote Challenge:- DAY 1

“I am thankful to all those who said NO to me. It’s because of them I did it myself.” – Albert Einstein

I’ve faced so many problems in life, but the good thing is I learned a lot from them. 🙂 Those things made me stronger and a positive person today. I personally think, a “No” should never be taken as an offence, instead it should be seen as an opportunity to do the task on your own. Remember this when you come in contact with an problem, it surely gives you the power to learn to do it yourself. This “no” will give you confidence. Take it as a challenge and this challenge will make all other things around you much easier and once you do it successfully you surely will have a new level of confidence which will make you take up other challenges in life. I believe that every day you have is the opportunity to learn and experience something and someone new, everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you appreciate them when they’re right. You believe less so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself, and sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together. So, sometimes a Big NO is also good, just accept it with a smile. 🙂 Anything that happens in your life is bound to affect you and what comes out of it always depends on how we decide to handle the situation. By changing the negatives into the positives, a NO into YES, we can easily make ourselves happy. So smile because it’s NO 😉
Today, I am thankful to all my supporters, especially my family and friends 🙂 ❤

And…I’m thankful to all my haters too, they all give me the confidence and push me to work harder and believe that what God has for YOU-is only FOR YOU, nobody can take that away when it’s yours, not even your Haters! 😉 So, Thanks my dear Haters 😛 you all are my motivation, you remind me of how awesome I am! 😉 Lol 😛 Thanks for the “NO” You’ve made me who I am today. 🙂
So, be infinitely grateful for every ‘no’ you get in life, it only means that you are just one step closer to your dreams! 🙂

And thank you Supreet for nominating me 🙂

Fake Smile…???

There’s so much pain in this question – “Are you okay?”
That one moment when somebody asks you this question and you realize that someone just noticed what you have been hiding for long. This suddenly changes your face because at that moment someone just tore your mask apart and saw you raw and for that moment your fake-smiling-face couldn’t deceive that someone. And just for a moment you realize that you were never okay and you are never gonna be okay anymore. But still you say “No I’m Fine” and then you say to yourself…..

Be strong, Don’t break down.
You know, the circumstances are weird, But its okay! you’ll face them.
Whatever happen good or bad, Don’t lose hope and Keep your head up,
Have faith in yourself, never break down, Because life goes on!

And suddenly you feel Better 🙂

You know, we all are same. Sometimes all we need to do is to make a fool of ourselves and be happy. Yes! life is strange and sometimes you have to put a fake smile on your face & hope, one day it will be real again and believe me IT WILL BE 🙂 Life may be full of ups and down, but if you give it a little time you’ll put yourself where you need to be. Just don’t give up, and don’t ever change for anybody. Always be yourself, Express yourself & Have faith in yourself. Don’t lose hope you never know what is coming your way 🙂 Be positive and choose to see & think about the positive things in your life & trust me, all will be better! 🙂

KEEP SMILE 🙂

Life is too short…Live, Love, Laugh, Be You!

Dear Girls,

Are you able to be an engaging, creative, dynamic woman with OR without a man??? Or do you sometimes fall into the trap of being the clingy, fearful girlfriend who can hardly function without him…??? Don’t worry! lots of us have done it….nobody is BORN understanding this dynamic. If you’re anything like me, you might just have to screw it up pretty good before you figure it out. And happily for all of us, becoming an awesome, in-demand girlfriend is a skillset you can learn, remaining faithful should not be an option but a priority. Live simply, love generously, speak truthfully, when you talk say what you mean and mean what you say. Do your best and leave everything else to the powers above you. 🙂 When you stop expecting people and situation to be perfect, you can start to appreciate them for what and who they are. Give your best in your relationship and then let it be. If it’s meant to be, it will be. Don’t hold yourself down with things you cannot control. If you feel like your relationship is sinking, think about what the cause is as it might be a good time to throw out the stuff that’s weighing it down. Let go of people who bring you down and always surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you. 🙂

Always try to figure out who is worth your attention and who is just taking advantage of you. Finally, remember that the first to apologize is the bravest, the first to forgive is the strongest and the first to move forward is the happiest. 🙂 For those who lack trust in their relationship or who have broken relationship, just know that because someone has been in your life for many years, doesn’t mean there shouldn’t be a point at which you finally decide to let go. You have to understand that people come and people go. That is life! So stop holding on to those who have let go of you long ago to avoid had I know after wasting your years. Sometimes the changes we don’t want in life are the changes we need to grow and growth and changes may be painful but nothing in life is as painful as staying stuck where you don’t belong.
Finally, accept what is, let go of what was and have faith in what could be and never let your fear decide your future. Just keep calm and be positive, good things will surely happen in your life. 🙂 🙂 And remember, If you ever need anyone to talk to about literally anything, I AM always here to listen no matter what okay! 🙂

Stay happy girls ❤