I am here…!!

 

Hello to all my Readers 🙂 Its been a long since I’ve posted anything and I am sorry for being lazy and not being regular over here.

Today I am going to place my thoughts on an issue which is very important to discuss and this issue always makes me sad. We seriously need to talk about it. You know guys, I get so sad and disturb anytime I read news of someone committing suicide, I don’t understand when did suicide become an option?? and why?? What makes people so weak that they decide to end their life? That they decide to pause their life, dreams and everything else? I am deeply appalled at the recent incidents of suicide by youngsters. It’s horrifying to even try and understand that guy/girl’s mindset which made them end their life.

I am just so sad and shocked to hear about Arjun Bhardwaj’s story. Guys we need to understand that Suicide is not the only option in life, if you’re facing any trouble just go and talk to your parents, best friend or anyone but please don’t even think about suicide. Doing suicide is not a solution. Please think about your family and friends. Don’t hurt them and yourself or think about suicide. Trust me, by doing that you’re gonna hurt other people even more. You see, it’s been a while since I started writing here and I am glad to have heard a lot of personal stories, some great love and friendship experiences and some really grave grievances over this period.

I’ve always felt thankful when someone has considered me worthy enough of being a part of their story or their life. This made me feel special every time. Keeping this in mind, I want to repeat that apart from the reader-writer relationship that we share, I can sometimes be your friend, your adviser and your confidante too. So, my dear reader if you’re struggling, facing any problem you always have a friend here who’ll be there with you and won’t judge you, won’t let you feel alone, its a promise! Please reach out to me whenever you feel depressed, sad, happy or weird and always remember that whatever you’re going through will pass too soon.

Like they say “There is sunrise after every night” That’s just how the universe works. Please remember that there’s a solution to every problem!

God bless you,
Much Love! ❤

My thoughts are my own!

“Our thoughts create our world.”  Do you believe in this line? Well I do! My thoughts are my own. They evolve in the some of the deepest part of the brain, based on what my eyes and ears convey to my brain. They may be simple or complex…but they are mine just Mine! I like sharing my thoughts with others, I mean not all but few of them. I believe my thoughts are the experiences of my life…They are mine and they are very important and close to me. I think through our thinking we define reality and the reason about it. I usually talk with my thoughts. They mature with time, they grow and they change. In the darkest hour, when I am totally alone, they are my only friend…. My Bestfriend ! ❤

When the whole world sleeps, they appear in front of me, making me smile, making me sad, making me crying, making me excited, depressed or happy. They play with me, they laugh with me, they cry with me, they talked to me, they are always with me! Last night some thoughts made me sad. (Sorry, I don’t want to share them here.) And with those thoughts in mind, I don’t know when I fell asleep, those thoughts appeared in my dreams, talked to me and disappeared when I woke up today morning. But they are still running in my mind. After all they always stay with me.
My thoughts, my opinion, my dreams are very precious to me…So I’ve lock them in my heart. I want to keep them safe in my heart. I have learned to live alone in this over-crowded world. I am alone but I am happy in my world after with my thoughts. Yes, I often feel alone and perhaps, all of us are or at least most of us are. My family is with me and they love me so much but you know still there’s something missing, something different that I always wanted to have but I guess it never worked. Sometimes I truly, deeply, madly immersed in my thoughts. I easily get lost in my thoughts. And I really think that Its not selfishness, It’s just spending time with the one who is with you from the time you are born to the time you breathe your last “The inner soul” 🙂

My thoughts remain with me. In one moment, some thoughts make me deeply depressed and the next moment some colorful thoughts bring smile to my face. In a moment they are very naughty and the second moment they are very serious. The hide-and-seek continues within. I think our thoughts and emotions are intertwined…..A thought can give rise to a feeling, and a feeling can give rise to a thought. I actually think that feelings or emotions and thoughts are cousins 😉
So yeah, my thoughts changed my world, they’ve already changed me but I still love them because they are mine and with me. I am very happy with them. My thoughts and my dreams are my own and they remain deep within me forever! ❤

“I’m glad that, no matter how much others try to influence them, all of my thoughts are mine…!!!” 🙂

The nature is too beautiful…Explore it! Weekly Photo Challenge: Solitude

People fascinate me. I love the words they say, good or bad I don’t care. Their stories inspire me. I like to make small talks and relations in this big crowded world. City life doesn’t dull me down.

But then there are times, I want to slow down… and just discover myself in nature…. Find solace in solitude.

Hear my heart speak. And pretend like the world is just nature, my thoughts and me!

So, Solitude is the topic of this week’s photo challenge and these are some pics from my collection 🙂 I hope you’ll all like my pictures!

Loneliness expresses the pain of being alone and solitude expresses the glory of being alone…..!

In response to The Daily Post’s Weekly Photo Challenge: Solitude

Infinite Truth

Behind every rude, arrogant guy/girl whom you call impolite, is his/her broken heart and a story that changed his/her attitude towards life!

Love!

LOVE 🙂 the most beautiful Word and Feeling in the world. 🙂 Do you know the meaning of Love? Do you guys believe in Love??? Well, I think the biggest problem with people and love nowadays is that some people are so desperate for love that they are even ready to settle for false relationships. I really think that Forced feelings, Mixed emotions and Wrong decisions are taken when people see the least bit of satisfaction of their desire to find love and I guess this is one of the major reasons why relationships fail nowadays.

I am being a little philosophical here but yes, these days its easier to say the other person “I Love You” than to explain them the importance of this word in your life.” I love you’s are casual, intensities do not exist and people don’t even know what they are getting into when they say they are in love. It’s sad and sometimes funny but unfortunately TRUE!

And this happens not because our hearts are ready to fall in love but because our minds are convinced of wanting something so badly that we’ll settle for a false image of it when we’re lonely. People need to understand that these 3 magical words (I Love You) are so important and saying I love you is not wrong but the sanctity of that feeling called love is almost over 😦 now its just a status to be with someone all the time…I mean, How Cheap! No one do understand that being with their oneself is much more important than being with fake person. I think we all need to learn this before we say we are in love!

You know, if you are not happy being single, you will never be happy in a fake relationship. We need to understand that “Being single is much wiser than being in a fake relationship.” Love is not a joke, drama or game…Its a feeling, it is more than words, respect it…respect your love, your life and yourself. That’s all!!!

Just stay happy guys, and DON’T FORGET TO LOVE YOURSELF FIRST!!! 🙂

TRUST….The bitter truth of life!

TRUST is one of the most biggest things in the world…. isn’t it? and one of the worst things when someone breaks your trust… I personally think the biggest mistake people make in life is breaking someone’s trust because when someone breaks your trust once, it’s hard to believe anything they say after and from thereon that person could never be able to trust anyone or anything again 😦 More so, they will always be skeptical while trusting anyone else too, because once your trust breaks, you know how much it hurts and you’ll never risk anything to have even a remote chance of experiencing that pain.

I’ve experienced it, I know how much it hurts and I can’t trust anyone ever. I think, when someone breaks your trust, then you don’t hate that person, you just start hating yourself and become a lame or living dead body inside somewhere. And I guess this is one of the reasons how fake our generation has become, no one is real, they all have so much pain in their hearts, they all are broken inside, maybe that’s why nobody is real…everyone is too scared to put trust in someone because of their pasts, somehow everyone is hiding their emotions, because just let’s be honest, someone somewhere has gotten his trust broken and has never found a way to trust anyone from thereon…..And, This is the bitter truth of life! 😉

Every scar tells a story. . .

It’s Raining :)

Rain clouds come floating in, not to muddy my days ahead, but to make me calm, happy and hopeful ❤

Happy Monsoon 🙂

#Music :)

Music is my life, my best friend and everything! ❤ If I didn’t have music I have no clue what I would do.

Music expresses the words that cannot be said. When you’re sad you understand the lyrics and when you’re happy you listen and sing along. Sometimes the lyrics to a song relate so much to you that you feel like that person wrote it just for your soul. 🙂

So yes! MUSIC always helps and it always reminds you of something or someone! 😉

“Music is moonlight in the gloomy night of life.” – Jean Paul

Let’s learn to live and express!

I think, It probably happens with all of us. Sometimes we just cannot express ourselves in front of anyone, its quite weird, but true and it really happens. Today I just want to say, please don’t hide your emotions, feeling or yourself. It’ll hurt more so please don’t! Sometimes we almost ruin our life by desensitizing our self way too much. We are all afraid to say too much, to love too much, to feel too deeply and to let people know that they actually mean something to us. I wonder if we realize that caring for someone doesn’t mean that we are stupid or crazy. It does make us a little rough or little different but some people are worth it and maybe more. 🙂 But personally, I don’t think having a caring, loving heart is something to be ashamed of. From where I see, there is something breathtakingly beautiful in those moments of smaller magic when you speak with your pure soul in front of someone important in all honesty or when you express your emotions/feelings in front of someone special, Oh, that moment makes your life perfect for a while. 🙂
I think its high time we break these shackles of faking ourselves and be outright honest and straight forward. Just, let that girl or boy know you love her/him with all your heart. Tell your dad he inspires you every single day. Tell your mom you care for her as much as she does. Tell your brother/sister you love and respect him/her a lot. Tell your friends they are very important to you. And most importantly tell YOURSELF that you’re free to live however you want to. 🙂
Now please! Express, express and express 😉 Open yourself up instead of hardening yourself and building those walls. Trust me, there is much more courage in this than that. So love yourself, express yourself and live freely! 🙂

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.”- Bruce Lee